men create more housework for women

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This song seems to come to mind.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rLxTpsIVzzo[/youtube]

Hey MR BOGAN, since you seem to flirt with MissConstrue in every f*****g thread why dont you guys create a *flirt thread*, eH?
How bout it.

Is is noticeable.

Anyway what do you care, arn't you not getting enough attention from aridarr and her strap on or something.

and I thought it was going great......I guess relationships aren't for everyone.

Nope

*passes lube* C'mon now, drop them drawls and lets git to it!

The MR_BOGAN and MissContrue relationship or the Aridarr D1nkO one?

I hope the MissContrue and MR_BOGAN one is still good.

Anyway I thought the Aridarr D1nk0 one was really starting to heat up.

Looks like Aridarr couldn't hack it. Aridarr seems to be a bit of a plain jane.

Hey settle down there tiger I'm sure aridarr will be back. I wouldn't give up on her just yet

Aridarr should seriously consider a career as a Dominatrix . Im TOTALLY serious! She's got the right attitude and the right personality .

Yeah she is quite fiesty!! !!

Hey where did she go? I kind of miss her feminist rants.... It doesn't seem the same without her.

I hope she is ok.

That's no BS! I may not yet be married to my fiance, but we live together. Since I don't have a job, I have no choice but to acquiesce to the rather demeaning job of domesticity. I can honestly say I find it undignified to have to go around and clean up after someone other than yourself. I suppose that it's fair, since he works full time. But that doesn't mean that I have to do it with a smile.

The ass leaves his dishes everywhere. He uses a different glass every time he drinks something, even just water. He throws his clothes in the middle of the floor when he comes home. He leave dirty socks randomly strewn throughout the apartment. He can't be bothered to empty his lunch bag. He crams dishes in the sink when it's already full. He doesn't clean his desk off. He leaves candy wrappers all over the couch and the floor. He piles used tissues on the nightstand in the bedroom and when he misses the trash can, he leaves it for me to pick up. He doesn't say please, and rarely thanks me. And now that I'm riding the bus, it's my job to go get his groceries!

So, yeah. My man, at least, makes more work for me. And he wonders why I never want to have sex with him anymore...

Well it takes two to tango! Seriously though, he works and and supports you and himself financially so WHO has the time to take care of your appartment and all the housework? If his slobbness bothers you that much you should nag him and berate him about it everytime he's home. As for your comment about sex thats pretty lowly of you to try to use sex to manipulate your soon-to-be husband . You could move out on your own, support yourself financially AND have the burden of taking care of your living quarters! Would you like that better? So yeah, both men and children create more housework for women but if the man has to be the breadwinner and has long hours you really have no business complaining about having to your part. Its not like homes clean themselves.

I know, but he could at least be grateful and get in the habit of picking up after himself, instead of expecting her to do all the dirty work and give him all smiles. I don't like cleaning up after other people. They could at least aim for the trashcan and pick it up if it doesn't make it. Or the hamper with the dirty clothes, or put his dirty dishes in the dishwasher. ya know?

There's a big difference between doing time consuming chores (vacuuming, laundry, grocery shopping) and picking up after slobs. If one person's at home more it's more efficient for that person to get the groceries and do the laundry, while cooking and dishwashing can be shared jobs (and can be bonding/valuable time together), but no one should have to pick someone else's clothes up off the floor. Spouses are partners, not servants. It's teamwork, not hierarchy. I'd say, leave the clothes on the floor. Leave the dishes where they lie. If they're not placed by the sink or in the dishwasher, assume they're still in use. Same with the snot-rags. If he asks, say "Oh, I thought you were still using it, seeing as how it wasn't put away". It takes strength to go this route, but after all every one needs to be house-trained at some point. Oh, and personal desks (not used for anything else) are sacred. Leave them messy. Leave them alone.

AngryReptileKeeper, did his mother let him get away with this stuff, or is he just trying it out on you?

Haven't you read Proverbs 31?




a humurous clip
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So yeah, both men and children create more housework for women but if the man has to be the breadwinner and has long hours you really have no business complaining about having to your part. Its not like homes clean themselves. [/quote]



Housework is demeaning. Everyone has a right to b***h about their day once in awhile. I'm sure she has to listen to him "complain" about his day. You can't have it both ways. You can't expect women to be passive doormat automatons who live to serve those around them and in the same breath dehumanize them by saying that they don't have to live with men if they don't want to.

Why don't men just understand the biological connection between the women's body and cleanliness? No it's not our fault that we are not disgusting and that our body is much more complicated than yours. As a sign of respect why can't you just understand and keep your filth to a minimum?

If you had read what I wrote more carefully I DID openly state that if you dont like the arrangement you're in you can break up/divorce and move out on your own and support your own darn self. Or get a job and find some guy who's unemployed and as Him to do all the housework! Better yet-hire a freakin maid! But if you cant afford a maid its totally unreasonable to expect the man to be BOTH breadwinner AND housekeeper while you just sit around spending HIS money. I really dont see what the point of this thread is other than a self-righteous whine-fest. Why do you blame men for not picking up after themselves but you dont blame children for being messy, eH?