do you ever feel asexual?

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I feel like I'm halfway there at least.

I've liked boys, but never in a sexual way.

What does that make me?

I'm attracted to boys but I'm not very sexual. I'd much prefer cuddling to sex.

I think that I am asexual about 99% of the time. I'm 36 and still a virgin, not because I can't get any, but because I don't WANT any. I have virtually NO interest whatsoever but that's how I WANT to be. And I absolutely HATE living in a world that glorifies sex! I mean, sex can KILL you now, but no one else seems to give a rat's tail and I hate it when other people say it's something your body naturally wants to do. I must be the most unnatural human in the world then.
I guess I should be glad I wasn't born male, because men think they're supposed to be wanting sex all the time or they have something horribly wrong with them. However, our STUPID society is more forgiving towards women because it still thinks we're weak and inferior.

LOL not in the slightest
If you could read my mind, you would faint.

"Do you ever feel asexual?" YES! Especially after my partner and I first started having sex. After a few days I just felt like... Oh... Ok. That's it? Yeah. I think I'm good. I don't need to anymore. That thinking passed after about a week, but I did take note in how I was feeling and thought that was strange. Now every once in a blue moon I will feel slightly asexual. But then is passes again.

No. I feel hypersexual or neutral. Now I'm neutral and it's great.

I AM asexual. Don't like it? Tough! I never felt any attraction twoards boys and often wondered if I was secretely a lesbian but than I never felt anything for females either. I'm happy being alone and am going to be one of those "married to the job" types. The idea of intercourse repulses me and I don't even like the idea of being close to someone emotionaly. I don't need no stinkin' man and I don't need no stinkin' woman either.

Definitely. I don't feel any sexual attraction towards men. I feel very attracted to women, but wouldn't say it's in a sexual way. I have experimented with a lot of things in the past but a lot was just me trying to prove something to myself I guess.

I'm in a long term relationship and so I have to have sex for his sake, but intercourse does absolutely nothing for me and often hurts me. I hate being touched in certain places too, and he insists on watching porn sometimes and doesn't understand that it is no more a turn on for me than staring at the wall.

Apparently I am demisexual, according to an earlier poster!

I have a long history in sexual abuse as my therapist said that not very many of my sexual experiences have been consentual. I was hyper sexual in my teens and twenties, and then after a Ltr with a guy with sexual addiction...I cant seem to even get excited about sex in the least. It has been 10 years since I have had sex or a real relationship...the longer I go without, the less this bothers me. My mojo is in a coma after much abuse.
However I can express some sexuality through my art. Creativity is a sexual energy.

No, and I think I have a pretty high sex drive. I'm glad that no one can read my mind...

Lately yes.

I've never been in a relationship or had any drive to at all, but I'm only 23 so maybe it'll come? 3 years ago, a guy was interested in me but it took me so long to figure it out that I accidentally led him on for 3 months before I realized he wanted to be more than friends, lol. Last year, my friend introduced me to the asexual group in Pride, and it was really nice spending time with other people who aren't that interested either, sometimes at uni it seems like all people want to do is go out and get off with someone and they think I'm strange coz I don't.

Sex includes another person. Even alone, masturbation is linked to others, to the contact of others... Maybe that's why AS are pretty often asexual. But I'm not ! Because sex is one of the most intense pleasures in life, I've fought my fears.