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30 Aug 2010, 11:02 pm

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Leave men out, they don't deserve to bond with their children they should hit women, hit men, do drugs, join gangs, sell drugs and end up in prison away from their children. Not bond with them!

They can bond with their children in different ways. Granted, I don't know many men who choose to do this anymore so I can't list any examples but I'm sure it's possible. D:

Of course men want to bond with their children. Many feel put out when their wife bonds through breastfeeding. Including him can improve his bonding with his child AND wife.

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30 Aug 2010, 11:08 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Erisad wrote:

Pistonhead wrote:

Leave men out, they don't deserve to bond with their children they should hit women, hit men, do drugs, join gangs, sell drugs and end up in prison away from their children. Not bond with them!

They can bond with their children in different ways. Granted, I don't know many men who choose to do this anymore so I can't list any examples but I'm sure it's possible. D:

Of course men want to bond with their children. Many feel put out when their wife bonds through breastfeeding. Including him can improve his bonding with his child AND wife.

which i also stated in my post:

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the father can bond too, but adding sexuality is definitely weird to me.

of course men can bond with their children, even WHILE the mother is breastfeeding. but that is distinct from sexuality.

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30 Aug 2010, 11:10 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Erisad wrote:

Pistonhead wrote:

Leave men out, they don't deserve to bond with their children they should hit women, hit men, do drugs, join gangs, sell drugs and end up in prison away from their children. Not bond with them!

They can bond with their children in different ways. Granted, I don't know many men who choose to do this anymore so I can't list any examples but I'm sure it's possible. D:

Of course men want to bond with their children. Many feel put out when their wife bonds through breastfeeding. Including him can improve his bonding with his child AND wife.

So let him feed with a bottle, I guess. >.>

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30 Aug 2010, 11:10 pm

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Oh good lord! I didn't say men find the baby sexual, and from the way some of you responded, that appears to be exactly the way you took it.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with a husband finding his wife's nurturing side sexy. Haven't you ever wanted to just jump your man for doing something manly or doing a chore around the house? It's the same damn thing. He's attracted to his WIFE.

I think anyone that thought anything different from what I said has some issues.

no, i didn't say that about men finding the baby sexual. but why would a man find it sexy for a woman to breastfeed? i would have been seriously disturbed if my husband had been turned on when i was breatfeeding, because i do conside the act to be a bonding moment between mother and child. the father can bond too, but adding sexuality is definitely weird to me.

i do understand that not all women feel that way. to each his/her own. all i can express is how i feel about it, between my husband and myself.

i don't actually get turned on by my husband doing 'manly' things either. i find him attractive when he is considerate, or loving towards me, or even just when i am randomly horny, to name a few situations. but it's not like i want to jump him when he chops wood or fixes the fence. i don't work like that.

I find my husband very sexy when he's being loving and silly with my children. It's the same thing.

you didn't state that option. you mentioned finding a man sexy when he is doing manly things.

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30 Aug 2010, 11:13 pm

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you didn't state that option. you mentioned finding a man sexy when he is doing manly things.

I also mentioned chores around the house. Most women find their husbands incredibly sexy when they do a sink full of dishes.

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30 Aug 2010, 11:13 pm

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So let him feed with a bottle, I guess. >.>

Or just hug and kiss his wife?

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30 Aug 2010, 11:14 pm

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So let him feed with a bottle, I guess. >.>

Or just hug and kiss his wife?

I was focusing more on the child but sure that works too.

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30 Aug 2010, 11:15 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Erisad wrote:

Pistonhead wrote:

Leave men out, they don't deserve to bond with their children they should hit women, hit men, do drugs, join gangs, sell drugs and end up in prison away from their children. Not bond with them!

They can bond with their children in different ways. Granted, I don't know many men who choose to do this anymore so I can't list any examples but I'm sure it's possible. D:

Of course men want to bond with their children. Many feel put out when their wife bonds through breastfeeding. Including him can improve his bonding with his child AND wife.

which i also stated in my post:

hyperlexian wrote:

the father can bond too, but adding sexuality is definitely weird to me.

of course men can bond with their children, even WHILE the mother is breastfeeding. but that is distinct from sexuality.

... which is why I didn't direct this towards you.

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30 Aug 2010, 11:16 pm

Pistonhead wrote:

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So let him feed with a bottle, I guess. >.>

Or just hug and kiss his wife?

do you mean in a sexual or non-sexual way?

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30 Aug 2010, 11:17 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Erisad wrote:

Pistonhead wrote:

Leave men out, they don't deserve to bond with their children they should hit women, hit men, do drugs, join gangs, sell drugs and end up in prison away from their children. Not bond with them!

They can bond with their children in different ways. Granted, I don't know many men who choose to do this anymore so I can't list any examples but I'm sure it's possible. D:

Of course men want to bond with their children. Many feel put out when their wife bonds through breastfeeding. Including him can improve his bonding with his child AND wife.

which i also stated in my post:

hyperlexian wrote:

the father can bond too, but adding sexuality is definitely weird to me.

of course men can bond with their children, even WHILE the mother is breastfeeding. but that is distinct from sexuality.

... which is why I didn't direct this towards you.

sorry! my mistake.

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30 Aug 2010, 11:17 pm

Erisad wrote:

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So let him feed with a bottle, I guess. >.>

Or just hug and kiss his wife?

I was focusing more on the child but sure that works too.

The point is the man can bond with both the mother and the child if he is included in the breastfeeding process. There is nothing wrong with that at all.

And the baby sucking on the tit is not what turns men on. It's his wife caring for his child that turns him on. Just like I wanted to jump my husband whenever he changed a poopy diaper.

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30 Aug 2010, 11:18 pm

I'm going to say yes on the kissing :lol:

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30 Aug 2010, 11:20 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Erisad wrote:

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Erisad wrote:

So let him feed with a bottle, I guess. >.>

Or just hug and kiss his wife?

I was focusing more on the child but sure that works too.

Yeah I would know nothing about that. :/

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30 Aug 2010, 11:20 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Erisad wrote:

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Erisad wrote:

So let him feed with a bottle, I guess. >.>

Or just hug and kiss his wife?

I was focusing more on the child but sure that works too.

i get what you're saying, but this is not necessaily universal. my husband thought it was beautiful when i sang to my girl, for instance, but he didn't find that aspect of me sexy. he found/finds it sexy when i was/am a wicked slut in the bedroom. we are a good fit, i guess.

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30 Aug 2010, 11:23 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Erisad wrote:

Pistonhead wrote:

Erisad wrote:

So let him feed with a bottle, I guess. >.>

Or just hug and kiss his wife?

I was focusing more on the child but sure that works too.

Which is why in my original reply I said "some men".

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30 Aug 2010, 11:42 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Erisad wrote:

Pistonhead wrote:

Erisad wrote:

So let him feed with a bottle, I guess. >.>

Or just hug and kiss his wife?

I was focusing more on the child but sure that works too.

Which is why in my original reply I said "some men".

a man finding his nurturing wife sexy is understandable (just not my thing). but there is definitely also a subset of men who sexualize the act of breastfeeding. there are *some* men who actually find the process of breastfeeding itself sexy, and that is what i find disturbing. well, both disturbing and insulting. aside from being sex toys, breasts have a function that doesn't need to be p0rnogrified.

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