androbot01 wrote:
Great article ... thanks for posting!
It is mentioned that if woman on the spectrum can compensate for their autism to behave in a socially acceptable fashion, that there is no point in diagnosis. To me this way of thinking makes it harder for women because often other "co-morbids" (depression, anxiety) are a result of coping with autism. But if only these symptoms are treated without identifying the underlying cause, not much progress will be made.
YES!! This line of thinking does not take into consideration the amount of concentration and energy and focus it takes for autistic women to compensate socially, and how even if we manage it, by the time we get home at the end of the day we are completely exhausted and emotionally/mentally drained. And the longer you keep it up, the more likely you are to head straight into overload and a meltdown/breakdown until you can't even function anymore and end up in bed for days or in the hospital. Then, after a rest, it starts all over again. Being able to mask socially for short periods of time is ultimately not really a coping mechanism because of the psychological cost. It never gets less exhausting or draining, no matter how "good" you get at it.