Yes, she's ver y important to me. I get along with her better than i do with my father who has more aspie ways.and my brother. I get on ok with my sister who is just more confident, not social whirlwindy. Now that i know about asperger's it helps me understand my family more. I think my parents were attracted by similar traits and hobbies, not necessarily appearance, and i'm glad some people have loved me formor than how I look. My mum has a fairly easy- going personality, but still a protective temper, if you canimagine that. She wrote out itineries for all my journeys, did shopping lists every day, bore with my silences, my rages , my indecisions, my joblessness, my mental illness, my lack of a boyfriend till I was 28 (she was not married till 30), my always coming back home, my childlessness, my stubbornness, people regarding me as stupid till I was 13, and evrything else. I will be devastated when i lose her but tryy and be as independant as possible.