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Would you want this person in the women's restroom or any sort of women's space?
Yes 74%  74%  [ 46 ]
No 26%  26%  [ 16 ]
Total votes : 62

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06 Dec 2013, 3:24 pm

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06 Dec 2013, 3:36 pm

I'm a big proponent for co-ed bathrooms. They do it in France, and nobody gets sexually assaulted there. It wouldn't bother me to find a man in the same restroom as me, and I have used a men's restroom.


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06 Dec 2013, 3:44 pm

Dynania wrote:
I'm a big proponent for co-ed bathrooms. They do it in France, and nobody gets sexually assaulted there. It wouldn't bother me to find a man in the same restroom as me, and I have used a men's restroom.


I think most women would disagree with there being a man, like the obvious man depicted in the OP, in the women's restroom.


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06 Dec 2013, 3:47 pm

beneficii wrote:
Dynania wrote:
I'm a big proponent for co-ed bathrooms. They do it in France, and nobody gets sexually assaulted there. It wouldn't bother me to find a man in the same restroom as me, and I have used a men's restroom.


I think most women would disagree with there being a man, like the obvious man depicted in the OP, in the women's restroom.


Why beat yourself up?

FFS surgery would make you a beautiful, passable woman.

Why don't you grow you hair longer ? Just curious.



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06 Dec 2013, 3:50 pm

LoveNotHate wrote:
beneficii wrote:
Dynania wrote:
I'm a big proponent for co-ed bathrooms. They do it in France, and nobody gets sexually assaulted there. It wouldn't bother me to find a man in the same restroom as me, and I have used a men's restroom.


I think most women would disagree with there being a man, like the obvious man depicted in the OP, in the women's restroom.


Why beat yourself up?

FFS surgery would make you a beautiful, passable woman.

Why don't you grow you hair longer ? Just curious.


FFS is out of my reach, so it is completely discounted.


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06 Dec 2013, 3:51 pm

I've seen much more masculine features in women's bathrooms. You would pass.



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06 Dec 2013, 4:04 pm

Dynania wrote:
I'm a big proponent for co-ed bathrooms. They do it in France, and nobody gets sexually assaulted there.


Compared to other places in the world, France consists of a peaceful society, so it is hardly relevant to the issue of co-ed bathrooms overall.



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06 Dec 2013, 4:07 pm

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I've seen much more masculine features in women's bathrooms. You would pass.


My HR rep tells me it would be best to avoid the women's restroom, so clearly I don't.


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06 Dec 2013, 4:08 pm

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Dynania wrote:
I'm a big proponent for co-ed bathrooms. They do it in France, and nobody gets sexually assaulted there.


Compared to other places in the world, France consists of a peaceful society, so it is hardly relevant to the issue of co-ed bathrooms overall.


Exactly, and in my case I also have mental illness on top of it. Mentally ill men are an especial danger to women, so they especially must be kept from women's spaces.


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06 Dec 2013, 4:27 pm

I don't think the votes on this poll are very honest. Also, starkid, it looks like you didn't vote.


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06 Dec 2013, 4:48 pm

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I don't think the votes on this poll are very honest. Also, starkid, it looks like you didn't vote.


I didn't vote because, when I opened this thread, I had no idea what it was about. I thought it would be a news story about a serial killer in the women's bathroom. I looked at your picture and couldn't figure out what the point was. Then I got caught up in the comments.

I don't know what the poll is asking – are you asking if there is something about your appearance that would make you seem out of place or offensive in the women's restroom? Or are you asking whether or not I'm generally ok with males in women's spaces?



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06 Dec 2013, 4:50 pm

starkid wrote:
beneficii wrote:
I don't think the votes on this poll are very honest. Also, starkid, it looks like you didn't vote.


I didn't vote because, when I opened this thread, I had no idea what it was about. I thought it would be a news story about a serial killer in the women's bathroom. I looked at your picture and couldn't figure out what the point was. Then I got caught up in the comments.

I don't know what the poll is asking – are you asking if there is something about your appearance that would make you seem out of place or offensive in the women's restroom? Or are you asking whether or not I'm generally ok with males in women's spaces?


The former (i.e. about me specifically).


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06 Dec 2013, 4:59 pm

beneficii wrote:
The former (i.e. about me specifically).


I have no opinion. You look quite androgynous to me.



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06 Dec 2013, 5:06 pm

starkid wrote:
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The former (i.e. about me specifically).


I have no opinion. You look quite androgynous to me.


Thank you.


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06 Dec 2013, 5:11 pm

beneficii wrote:

I think most women would disagree with there being a man, like the obvious man depicted in the OP, in the women's restroom.


I have to confess, I thought the picture was of a Woman, my apologies.



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06 Dec 2013, 5:22 pm

beneficii wrote:
Dynania wrote:
I'm a big proponent for co-ed bathrooms. They do it in France, and nobody gets sexually assaulted there. It wouldn't bother me to find a man in the same restroom as me, and I have used a men's restroom.


I think most women would disagree with there being a man, like the obvious man depicted in the OP, in the women's restroom.


I'm not most women. ;)


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