AspieOtaku wrote:
GivePeaceAChance wrote:
there are very few men I can stand being even in the same room with - mostly because I am tired of them attempting to force me to have sex with them or trying to manipulate their way into some sort of situation with myself and other womyn.
The men I do manage civil conversations with are either - Gay, or husbands of my friends who are fully committed to them - anything else and I want to be left alone just out of self defense.
Basicly men not sexually attracted to you! That does make sense and bring you at ease indeed. Some women I am afraid of because of my nasty past I fear they are wanting to trick me so they can manipulate me and stab me in the back kind of deal! I lack trust and am sometimes afraid of them! I dont hate them though.
you have never seen me! you have never lived my life!
I walk down the street and men scream at me about having sex with me, I walk up to a bus stop and they ask to have sex with me, they do it in stores and just about every where else I go! They ask me do do all sorts of things whether I am polite or outright rude in refusing. It does not even help to tell them I am lesbian, this only makes them want to watch me and another womon OR have a threesome (which is idiotic! lookup the freaking definition of lesbian fools)
you men do not have this sort of experience and have zero idea what it is like to have this occur. ESPECIALLY in the weeks following a rape!
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