kissing and sex

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Hi everyone,

My appolagies for any grammer or spelling mistakes I might make in this post. English is not my first language.

So I am dating this boy who I like verry much we have the same interests and culture.

He loves makeing out with me and always talks about how he can't wait to make out again. I ignore it or switch subject because I hate makeing out with him. While he is enjoying it I am thinking what I am going to have for dinner, at what time I need to catch the train or any other random stuff. Aldo I do not like the kissing I do like dryhumping. But after kissing for 10 minutes I move 4 times against his leg and I am finisht. After that I do not want to be touched and feel verry sleepy.

I do enjoy hugs, cuddling normal kisses and touching his hands.

Not sure why I can't enjoy the other stuff like he or other people do... Do one of you ladies have this problem in any form?

Some people just don't enjoy deep kissing (soul kissing, tongue kissing).

It didn't come naturally to me, either. I didn't enjoy it for a long time.

I hope the guy's breath isn't bad.

Otherwise, I'd stay with the guy--because you seem to like him very much.

Communicate with him. If you'd like him to kiss differently (less tongue, more/less pressure, etc.) then tell him. If you'd just plain rather not kiss, tell him so. People have all kinds of different turn-ons; it's okay if kissing isn't one of yours.

i do. kissing has its place for me but in general i find it pretty unnecessary and boring.
are you ready to do anything more sexual with him? if so maybe you should try to negotiate that.