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Do you like it when guys play and hold your boobs. If the question is to personal im sory, i just want to get a clear veiw on the subject. by the way girls im a guy. hehehe.
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Zombie

Last edited by zombie on 22 May 2007, 7:05 am, edited 1 time in total.

LOL you should post a poll so they can answer anonymously. at first, i thought how stupid this question was, then i realized i would also like to know the answer i don't think you get many answers, though.

i voted "Get away from me you freak", because i wanted to see the result so far only one vote (mine) hehe

I didn't vote and you probably won't like the answer. I don't like it if "men" in general do. The answer is it depends. It depends on if I'm attracted to them, in a relationship with them where I can overcome all my startle response issues and most of all if they know what their doing. The answer to that last one is generally no, they don't know what they're doing. Maybe the other women will tell you what they think, but that's what I know and what I've heard from other women. So there you have it. They better be attracted to you and you better know what you're doing. If they are Aspie, you have all kinds of other issues to deal with around whether they have sensory or startle problems.

I know you guys hate these non-specific answers, but that question does not have a black and white response.

I don't know. I've never had a guy play with my boobs, so how would I know? Anyway, no I wouldn't want some guy touching them.

I suspect I lot of males did.

Just remember that there are different
forms of play. Ranging from gentle caresses
to pulling or slapping together. Probably
should have been more options.

Yes as long as my nipple arent messed with.

As long as he knows what he's doing, and isn't an idiot.

I would like to know how one properly engages in such an activity.

I've never had that done, and I bet it would be very awkward. And I think this is a bit inappripriate.

Strange question but interesting
What if the guy is a doctor? (stupid question)

Gently. unless you either know that
they like it rough, or if you're a jerk,
like me.

not when im PMSing... they be tender! i

An honest question deserves an honest answer.

Yes.

No.

Maybe.

Get away from me, you freak.

All of the above.

Physical contact, especially that of an intimate (not necessarily sexual) nature, can release things in our bodies that serve to create a bonding experience. Like Oxytocin.

It helps create bonding in mates, in parent-child relationships, can reduce stress, etc. There's a whole ton of information that is out there. Here are a couple of links to get you started:

Oxytocin: The Hormone of Love:
http://www.oxytocin.org/oxytoc/index.html

Bonding Matters: The Chemistry of Attachment:
http://www.babyreference.com/BondingMatters.htm

Being aware of the chemistry in our bodies is a good idea for the future. For gals, and for guys. One might not WANT to have a lot of close contact of a physical nature with someone until they are SURE they want to create a bond.

I don't mean just a sexual bond, because you'll get the emotional part with the sexual part, whether you want it or not. You'll see from just those two linked pages, that results vary in people. Of course they vary.

From the first link:
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Different questionnaires, including the Inventory of Interpersonal Problems and the Adult Attachment Scale, were used to assess each woman's previous experiences with personal and close relationships. The results were significantly correlated with the recorded changes in bloodstream oxytocin levels.

Women whose oxytocin levels rose in response to massage and remembering a positive relationship reported having little difficulty setting appropriate boundaries, being alone, and trying too hard to please others. Women whose oxytocin levels fell in response to remembering a negative emotional relationship reported greater problems with experiencing anxiety in close relationships.
------Excerpt end------

The massage mentioned was neck and shoulder. Nothing sexual. It's all additive and cumulative. Have some bad experiences, it's hard to think of anything else but bad things, so being touched might be creepy, the levels of oxytocin fall, and the response is "get away from me you freak"

Have some good experiences, the level rises with the current good experience, and bonding occurs.

We'd have to add in a gazillion links on how to change our outlook, work on our anxiety, setting boundaries, etc.

We all have different pasts. Different experiences. The same person might have different responses to different people. I mean, I'm not just going to participate at a "feel my boobies" stand, like a lemonade stand. As in "You can touch me, but not everyone can."

And the same person might have different responses FROM people. As in "My last significant other really liked this, but the new one doesn't."

Start in on the reading, and you'll get a lot of answers to your original question.

I love having my breasts touched. I like the attention and it ALWAYS feel good. My man is gentle and takes his time. But, I do need sexual attention with a dose of comfort. By this I mean, partly, he needs to tell me, in words, specifically what he will be doing since being surprised touched is slightly scary. My breasts are really sensitive and to have him stroke my breasts is both deeply relaxing and arousing. Not to be too revealing, but I think I can have an orgasm with him just stimulating my nipples and breasts. And, yes, I like him to kiss my nipples.

It's nice when done right, but most guys are actually too gentle with me; I'm way too ticklish there unless they get a little rough.