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DevilKisses
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22 Aug 2016, 3:24 am

I think I'm about average for a girl. Not particularly feminine or masculine. Just average. For some reason people think I'm more feminine than average. I'm guessing it's my round face :(. It kind of hurts that people think I'm more feminine than average when I'm queer.


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22 Aug 2016, 6:01 am

I happen to like feminine women.

I feel femininity is a delight to men, as well as to women who desire a feminine women. You mentioned, a few times, that you like "edgy" women. "Edgy" women tend to like relatively feminine women.

Most women, truthfully, aren't all "feminine." They are "average." They have both feminine and masculine characteristics--to put it a better way, they have "people" characteristics.



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22 Aug 2016, 9:16 am

Because on average girls are feminine, perhaps you dress particularly feminine...I don't think face shape has much to do with if one finds someone feminine or not. Also since when would being queer prevent one from being feminine? there are masculine and feminine females who are that way.

If it bothers you then dress more masculine I suppose.


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22 Aug 2016, 11:51 am

Sweetleaf wrote:
Because on average girls are feminine, perhaps you dress particularly feminine...I don't think face shape has much to do with if one finds someone feminine or not. Also since when would being queer prevent one from being feminine? there are masculine and feminine females who are that way.

If it bothers you then dress more masculine I suppose.

I get that I come across as feminine because I'm the average girl. I just don't get why people think I'm more feminine than the average girl. It just makes me feel less than queer when people think I'm more feminine than the average girl.


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22 Aug 2016, 2:07 pm

It's what's "inside" you that counts.

If you feel quite "queer" inside, you're "quite queer," even if you appear like a Barbie doll.



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22 Aug 2016, 8:30 pm

People at school think I'm feminine for some reason. I think maybe it's because I am shy?

Maybe you could ask them why they think you're feminine.


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23 Aug 2016, 11:59 pm

I think how feminine a female looks depends a lot on bone structure. Small framed, though not necessarily short, females tend to appear the most feminine.

I knew a girl, she had a small bone structure, and we could be wearing the exact same thing, and she would look very feminine and I...well, I wouldn't. She had what I would call a hyperfeminine phenotype. She was also gay, but couldn't present as butch if she tried because she looked so feminine in whatever she wore, and no matter how she did her hair.



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24 Aug 2016, 9:48 am

Chronos wrote:
I think how feminine a female looks depends a lot on bone structure. Small framed, though not necessarily short, females tend to appear the most feminine.

I knew a girl, she had a small bone structure, and we could be wearing the exact same thing, and she would look very feminine and I...well, I wouldn't. She had what I would call a hyperfeminine phenotype. She was also gay, but couldn't present as butch if she tried because she looked so feminine in whatever she wore, and no matter how she did her hair.

I hate my bone structure. I have a wide face, but pretty much no cheekbones. My x-Ray shows that I have extremely low cheekbones. I think this makes me look very awkward.


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24 Aug 2016, 9:50 am

oh cmon, Devil Kisses, you look fine!