pixie-bell wrote:
When I said 'understanding' I was referring to the fact that someone else can explain to my family and myself the reason for my behaviour, e.g. reaction to sensory overloads. I have great difficulty with determining what I feel and think and trying to convey that to others, especially when one goes from being very verbal to non-verbal very quickly, with no idea what is happening, for me is very confusing.
Thus, an understanding of oneself, if you like.
If you have a clear understanding of yourself, great, but for others that don't (and it is severely impacting on your life), then, yes, I think a diagnosis is warranted, and I agree with you in that some individuals don't need a diagnosis as they just know. At any rate, I am happy that I have done so.
Hmmm, stated in this manner, I can't help but agree...
It's interesting to be here, less than 1/4 of my life knowing what is "wrong" with me, and even now, not fully understanding all of the aspects of what makes me this way. I must admit, that it is entirely comforting to know that it's not just a weird quirk of personality, but rather I have a genetic reason for being the way that I am.
So, in essence, knowing that I am Aspie, gives me this unique understanding, even complete comprehension, if you will, of who I am and why I am like this. BUT, I don't need a doctor to confirm it.
If I were a parent with a two year old and all these symptoms, I'd certainly want to find out what I could do, I would certainly NEED to know... But at my age... getting a tricky enough diagnosis to begin with... well, it's an altogether different animal.
I think it's a quirk of the fact that mental health professionals have really only even known about this syndrome less than 15 years. Add to that the fact that there are very few professionals with any kind of real expertise in this matter, and I have to wonder why any adult would want to put themselves through it.
As I said, if it's a required diagnosis, then going through the motions is necessary, but if it's just a question of peace of mind, I have to wonder why bother?