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Aurore
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26 Sep 2008, 11:13 am

My fiance just got me into a massive amount of trouble - I may end up kicked out of my residence hall, suspended, possibly even expelled. It was him doing the idiotic thing that got us citations, I was just in the wrong place at the wrong time. He said it sucked he got me into this mess but I am still waiting for an apology. Am I wrong to be super pissed he hasn't formally apologized to me?


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26 Sep 2008, 11:33 am

Guys are bad at apologizing. Sometimes it takes us a while to process the extent of how bad we messed up, and sometimes the thought just never occurs to us. He clearly owes you an apology though. I hope your school isn't unreasonable enough to punish you on account of his misconduct.



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26 Sep 2008, 12:31 pm

SPCDavid wrote:
Guys are bad at apologizing. Sometimes it takes us a while to process the extent of how bad we messed up, and sometimes the thought just never occurs to us. He clearly owes you an apology though. I hope your school isn't unreasonable enough to punish you on account of his misconduct.


Yeah, this is why I was trying not to be too frustrated with him.


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26 Sep 2008, 2:04 pm

An engagement is not complete, nor is the relationship tested until he can come back to you and say (in his own way, of course) "honey, I was an idiot, but losing you would be far more idiotic, can you ever forgive me?"

then you know you have a man and husband material!

good luck!

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26 Sep 2008, 4:02 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
An engagement is not complete, nor is the relationship tested until he can come back to you and say (in his own way, of course) "honey, I was an idiot, but losing you would be far more idiotic, can you ever forgive me?"

then you know you have a man and husband material!

good luck!

Merle


Heheh...we've just got over dealing with this too. He just formally apologized, both to me and my parents. I think I love him more than ever.


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26 Sep 2008, 4:28 pm

Aurore wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
An engagement is not complete, nor is the relationship tested until he can come back to you and say (in his own way, of course) "honey, I was an idiot, but losing you would be far more idiotic, can you ever forgive me?"

then you know you have a man and husband material!

good luck!

Merle


Heheh...we've just got over dealing with this too. He just formally apologized, both to me and my parents. I think I love him more than ever.


I just got a little tear in the corner of my eye! This is the best thing that could have come out of this, Aurore.

Merle


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