Shoe wrote:
The kid is raging because he's in pain and the parents seem to feel compelled to egg him on. The best course of action would be to retrain all 3 of them in how to relate to each other and to help the kid deal with the stressors that cause the meltdowns in the first place. At the very least, tell the mother than when he says he needs to be left alone in order to calm down, she needs to do it!
I stated something like this on my email to the show. His extreme behaviors (note I said behaviors) Can be effectively brought under control with a behavioral therapy program for the child and adults. I firmly believe, that with parent training (specialized for parents of children with ASD) that this would stop. Both of my sons have had pretty extreme behaviors, my youngest was just discharged from an intensive inpatient program, then folloewd up for the last 6 months, now we are in the home based portion. The way I was reacting to the behaviors was making them worse. Not necessarily do I mean that I was just yelling, but giving attention is a reaction.
Children on the spectrum, especially us with AS tend to learn very quickly. Son #2 will learn a behavior after two times doing it. If they have had problems this long, why haven't they sought the proper treatment for this? Things like taking the checkbook, well that is just aberrant behavior, not AS. Sounds like he has some type of conduct disorder, and certainly disruptive behavior disorder (something my two are dx'd with)
She also mentioned on the sites posts, that Alex was diagnosed with "mood swing disorder" Face it the kid has bi-polar, since the DSM doesn't have a MSD in it.
Personally, she needs as much help as poor Alex. A good functional behavior analysis, would be able to tell why he is doing what he is doing and allow him to get the help he needs. Not necessarily pharmacologically.
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