ColdBlooded wrote:
Soon after i was diagnosed, one person i told about it said that i should get a second opinion... Because apparently she had taken a psychology class at some point, and couldn't have AS because people with AS don't care about others and have problems with speech. I can kind of understand how someone might jump to the "don't care about others" conclusion from the whole "lacking empathy" thing... But i'd never associated speech problems with AS at all.. Most aspies seem to speak really well. Sure, there can be issues with tone of voice, volume, pauses, etc., but she seemed to be talking more about speech impediments than problems with the social use of speech.. because I said that the only speech problems i knew of were things like not knowing what to say or going on about the same thing for too long, and she said that she was talking about the actual speech itself. So, uh, yeah.
I told one person i know recently about my AS, and that it's a form of autism and all of that... And she said that i seemed fine and that she didn't understand how a professional could diagnose me with any kind of autism.. because an autistic kid goes to her church, or something like that, and i don't act like that person. And that was kind of funny, because this person who was saying this seems to have quite a few spectrum-y traits herself.
Well, if this person's traits are substantially similar to yours, perhaps that person is in denial, and by acknowledging that you have it, they would be forced to acknowledge that they likely have it.