I have not been diagnosed by a psychologist, but after my (now 7 yr old) son was expelled from pre-school at the age of 3, for correcting the teacher too often, we had some really tough times trying to make sense of IT ALL.
Obviously, with a 3 yr old sporting reading skills of a smart 2nd grader, we knew he was special some way, but we were not familiar with autism other than the movie "Rainman"
and a couple of photography clients we had seen over the years in our portrait studio, who had low functioning children. One of the teachers who had removed my son from pre-school classes with no explanation, told us to have him "tested", but did not say what kind of test he should have. Something to do with state regulations regarding any medical diagnosis or implication from an unqualified person and the legal liability the school system would be exposed to, prevented her from going into details. So, she really did us a favor by bending the rules and speaking to us in a candid manner, even though she was not specific.
After the third wave of tests he had to endure, one of the psycologists, new to the team, made a remark to me that "I" was probably one of the most amazing success stories she had seen and wished me the very best for my son.
"Excuse me, but WHAT did you just say?"
At that point, our education about autism consisted of the psyche groups substantial hand out package, a month's worth of internet research, and I had read Temple Grandin's "Thinking In Pictures" and Brian Seigel's " The World Of The Autistic Child". I cried through both of those and I was already thinking that most of this stuff was familiar to me and started to talk to my wife about odd abilities that I can demonstrate, like getting a half second glance at a scene and days later being able to read signs and info from the scene from a mental picture. It never really occurred to me, before, that not everyone could do that. Anyway the head Dr. had told us that the other Dr. had merely misspoke and that they would need to do some of the same procedures on me to confirm or deny my suspiscions. I haven't done that yet, but I don't really need to.
Before anyone says that I have a fool for a patient, let me just say that none of this new education I have acquired is about me. I am mainly trying to help my kids get a fair shake and as long as I can, I will represent their interests to any institution that tries to wave them aside and I will do so from a position of Knowing-What-The Hell-I'm-Talking-About, for the most part, anyway.
So, rambling my way back to the thread topic, I was 46, four years ago, when I came to the personal conclusion that I'm not really crazy and that there is a reason for some of my quirky habits and social dysfunctions.
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