Anyone have a certain word they tend to repeat?

Page 2 of 3 [ 39 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1, 2, 3  Next

Darkword
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 22 Feb 2009
Age: 36
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,398

08 May 2010, 1:54 am

Thinking about it for a bit, I realize an infinitely more common one for me is alright. "alright alright alright." although its really just a variation on right. Which is probably why right came to mind first.

It's not an exasperated alright, like "let's get on with it", but really a sort of way of saying "that works". There is usually a positive ring to it.



auntblabby
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 12 Feb 2010
Gender: Male
Posts: 115,210
Location: the island of defective toy santas

08 May 2010, 2:15 am

Horus wrote:
The good Mr. Rekers' excuse?
"I just had surgery....I hired this guy to carry my luggage".


he was being unintentionally honest, in that the fellow did handle his "package" as well as deal with his "baggage."



Fuzzy
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 Mar 2006
Age: 53
Gender: Male
Posts: 5,223
Location: Alberta Canada

08 May 2010, 2:27 am

Gettin off topic here...

Image

from http://www.jesusandmo.net/2010/05/07/ahem/


_________________
davidred wrote...
I installed Ubuntu once and it completely destroyed my paying relationship with Microsoft.


Horus
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 14 Sep 2009
Age: 57
Gender: Male
Posts: 2,302
Location: A rock in the milky way

08 May 2010, 2:43 am

auntblabby wrote:
Horus wrote:
The good Mr. Rekers' excuse?
"I just had surgery....I hired this guy to carry my luggage".


he was being unintentionally honest, in that the fellow did handle his "package" as well as deal with his "baggage."


Well....let's see....now it's time for the requisite mea culpa speech complete with all the crocodile tears Rekers can muster and a 6-month "rehab" stint with pastor Rick Warren acting as his "spiritual adviser".

And of course...it's time for Rush Limbaugh and Ann Coulter to perform the intellectual gymnastics necessary to blame the whole thing on liberals, environmentalists, abortionists, etc.....

*yawn*

Next.


America is getting kinda boring and predictable...I wish I could see a UFO or something.



pensieve
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 18 Nov 2008
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 8,204
Location: Sydney, Australia

08 May 2010, 6:10 am

auntblabby wrote:
gee, my deliberative vocalizations are limited to "HNMmmmmmmmm" and "YIyiyiyi" and "SHeeemmmooo" and such. these are also "stims." if i here something unpleasant [such as right-wing blowhards, or children crying or such, i will make a loud "SSSSSSSSSSSSSS" sound out of the corner of my mouth so as to concentrate the sound mainly internally rather than distract other folk within earshot- this exaggerated sibilant/thibilant sound both blocks out the offending external sound but also [just by doing it] distracts me from it as well.

Me too. Especially with the right-wing blowhards.
I've been making raspberries noises a lot lately too. Oh and growling. I make sounds when I'm bored and hyper.


_________________
My band photography blog - http://lostthroughthelens.wordpress.com/
My personal blog - http://helptheywantmetosocialise.wordpress.com/


wendigopsychosis
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 11 Apr 2010
Age: 35
Gender: Female
Posts: 471
Location: United States

08 May 2010, 11:26 am

irishwhistle wrote:
It does depend on the way it is repeated. I've observed that all people who are actually verbal will at some point use a filler word for no other purpose than that. Some are chronic... my husband and I have each noticed speakers at our church who have a favorite. I once sat and counted how many times one woman said "y'know" while giving a lesson. I saw one movie where Barbra Streisand played a woman who filled space with "I mean" and nearly drove her shrink crazy. That one is universal.

If you mean repeating a word in the manner of a verbal stim, for no real reason, maybe even inappropriately, then you're heading more toward things on the spectrum. I once spent most of a shower singing, "Honeysuckle, buzzy bee!" softly to myself just because it had the right "click" to it. I get so bored when I shower but I have to make myself remember to wash everything on my mental list, and I usually do it in the morning when I'm still disoriented from sleep so I'm not terribly relaxed when I wake up, ironically, thus pretty tense in the shower. I know, sounds kooky. What can I say?.


That's what I meant :) I think I really should have said "stim" lol. I honestly didn't make the connection to stimming until you posted this...
But yes, it is a sort of stim.

In terms of repeated words that even NTs have, I used to say "like" a lot, similar to many in my generation. I finally stopped when I met a guy who couldn't say more than 2 words without saying "like," it was really unbearable. He sounded like a valley girl! "This is like sort of like a like example."

On the topic of stimming, I knew a very jock/bro-ish guy in high school who I suspected had tourettes. He would say "doug" (though he insisted he was saying "dog": "No way doug, I'm saying DOG doug.") He couldn't even say ONE word without saying it. I remember when our math teacher would say something he didn't understand, he would yell out, "DOUG WHAT?!" hahaha. It was very charming, really.
No one really believed me, but I was sure it was tourettes even if he didn't know it, simply because it seemed so uncontrollable. He also seemed embarrassed about it... Whenever anyone asked him about why he was saying "doug" (/"dog"? lol) he would get really defensive. It just seemed like a tic, and someone like me, who has many tics, can recognize my own kind. ;)
I eventually learned around graduation from one of his friends that he did indeed have tourettes! I felt pretty proud of my diagnostic skills haha.



To the people talking about noises they make when upset, I tend to groan...which is a little bit awkward. I've learned to control it, so I don't do it in public, but oh god it builds inside of me. I have to leave the room and go to the bathroom or something so I can make groany noises hahaha. It's like an itch I need to scratch.
Another reason I love having an aspie boyfriend is that I can do all my weird habits/tics around him and he doesn't care, because he understands and has them too. Previous boyfriends of mine have all never said anything about it, but they were so obviously disturbed that I just stopped doing stims/tics around them and had to revert back to my leave-the-room method... So I like that I can make weird noises around my current boyfriend as much as I like and he actually finds it endearing :)


_________________
:heart: I'm an author and public speaker on autism, gender, and sexuality :heart:
:heart: Read my articles @ http://kirstenlindsmith.wordpress.com :heart:
:heart: Follow updates @ https://www.facebook.com/pages/Kirsten- ... 9135232493 :heart:


Kajjie
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 12 Aug 2008
Age: 35
Gender: Female
Posts: 495
Location: Sometimes London, sometimes Coventry

08 May 2010, 2:55 pm

I do the same thing you do with sounds, and sometimes I get words stuck in my head and say them out loud to myself if I'm alone or I just say them in my head over and over.


_________________
"The only difference between myself and madman is I am not mad" - Salvador Dali


ProfessorAspie
Snowy Owl
Snowy Owl

User avatar

Joined: 31 Mar 2010
Gender: Male
Posts: 136

08 May 2010, 2:58 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
The word that I like to repeat, is logic.


Wow. Me too.

That's kind of strange.



irishwhistle
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 Sep 2006
Age: 53
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,272

08 May 2010, 8:59 pm

I love the doug thing, just sounds kinda cute. I do have noises I make. When I'm sitting at the computer in the evening (when everyone else is asleep, in other words) I make whistling sounds in my throat. I can get very frustrated if I can't make them audible. I notice a lot of stims at that time of day, because I've been bottling them up a lot during the day. Not all day, but a lot. People would think I was nuts seeing me at the computer at night. I don't recall any particular (ooh, that's a good word) words that I favor, so much as sounds... K is a favorite. I don't swear anymore, though I did so for a spell as a teen, but swear words really bother me now, so it's a problem sometimes if I happen across f*** because honestly it's everywhere and has a crispness to the sound that my mouth just wants compulsively to say sometimes, but is so danged crude! I think half of the urge is just that I dislike it so much. Eh, well, adversity can be character-building. It isn't as hard to resist these days, and other words click nicely in the mouth, so I get by.


_________________
"Pack up my head, I'm goin' to Paris!" - P.W.

The world loves diversity... as long as it's pretty, makes them look smart and doesn't put them out in any way.

There's the road, and the road less traveled, and then there's MY road.


_Motionless_
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 17 May 2010
Gender: Female
Posts: 26
Location: London

19 May 2010, 3:26 am

not so much as a word but as in words...which tend to be.

"how are you?" and "Hi"



justMax
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 23 Nov 2009
Age: 45
Gender: Male
Posts: 539

19 May 2010, 4:53 am

Cusswords, slurs, onomatopoeia (the actual examples of it, not the word itself, moo!), boosh, kakaow, "By Thor!", mathematics, huzzah.



kwilky
Raven
Raven

User avatar

Joined: 23 Apr 2010
Age: 38
Gender: Male
Posts: 113

19 May 2010, 6:02 am

I'll repeat the word right sometimes if I'm really frustrated with something. It's pretty rare that I do that though. I haven't done that in quite a while.



mgran
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 22 May 2009
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,864

19 May 2010, 6:59 am

Sometimes I'll get a word stuck in my head, or a phrase, and it goes on for hours, sometimes even days, slowly driving me up the wall. Hasn't happened so far this year though, for which I'm grateful.

The word that I find myself saying without any volition is quite embarassing, because it's a pure nonsense word. Huyanama. Sometimes I'll come out with other glossolalia, but that's the one that keeps coming up. Also, sometimes when I'm stressed I'll start speaking one of my secondary languages instead of English, very rapidly, and with terrible grammar, sometimes mixing them up. I've since learned that this is more to do with manic swings in bipolar than AS.



Aimless
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 1 Apr 2009
Age: 69
Gender: Female
Posts: 8,187

19 May 2010, 7:05 am

When I trip over something I often say "Ooh la la" and I don't know why.



Keeno
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 8 Mar 2006
Age: 51
Gender: Male
Posts: 4,875
Location: Earth

19 May 2010, 7:20 am

Oh shut up. I'm just trying to make polite conversation.



mgran
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 22 May 2009
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,864

19 May 2010, 7:25 am

Is that one of your regular sayings, or has someone here offended you?