Music - how would I have survived without it? I craved it since I could remember. I was like a sponge from the start.
I think every genre has it's gems, and I don't have a huge dislike for any of them except that I only like small samplings of country. I like rock, heavy metal, punk, blues, jazz (depending), RnB, opera, old school rap (or the modern rap artists that were influenced heavily by it, like Eminen or Snoop Dogg), 50's doo-wop, show tunes, some dance/techno, etc, etc., but rarely top 40 (or at least while they are still in the top 40
). When I was a teenager, I really despised the hits, and only listened to music 20+ years old. By the 90's I liked what was happening, and now it's slimmer pickings, but there's always something I get excited about, whether 50 years old or brand new.
I grew up in the 70's and 80's. Maybe it's because I had three much older siblings, all of whom had different tastes plus my parents had theirs as well, and music was always playing in our house and I had a stereo (record player) in my room since about five, but I just appreciate it in all forms when it's done well. I used to care about lyrics and such, but they hardly matter at all now.
I'm lucky in that I had been introduced to a lot of older music (early blues, jazz, RnB, etc) via my boss (and good friend) at a second hand record store during my 20's. It was awesome to be in a place where it was all about the music, and the conversations were like none I've had since...but I digress!
As for "noisy" stuff, I love it. It didn't start out that way, as I had avoided heavy metal and punk as long as I could, thinking it was awful. But the more I listened (on my own), the more I realized how cathartic it could be. For example, I loved Nirvana back in the day, but there were certain songs that had feedback moments or were really "painful" to hear, lyric or vocal wise, and the sounds would pierce my very soul, like fingernails on a chalkboard. Instead of fleeing from the "pain" I embraced it, became it. Hard to explain. I find it really...I don't know...revitalizing?!
I don't think there is any "Aspie music", as such though.