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02 Sep 2011, 9:03 pm

Ok... so i make out and flirth with this girl this whole evening. Still i end up alone. What am i doing wrong? :cry:



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02 Sep 2011, 9:09 pm

Find a girl who is a friend, hang out in groups with her present, and then ask her. I don't think your question can possibly be answered on a web board. Maybe if you wrote several pages worth, full transcript of what was said, and description of facial expressions and body language exchanged, which if you're an Aspie, you probably didn't notice anyway.



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02 Sep 2011, 10:12 pm

Girls are teases man haha. I've been there way to much. My advice is dont give up! I was that guy who watched his friend have all these gf in school. Their relationships were so shallow. But eventually when I stopped trying I met my wife. We were friends for years before we dated... My point is love is hard and you obviously got the moves if you made out all night. My biggest discovery is be confident with women because they might read being shy as not interested. Also don't pretend to be someone your not, they eventually figure it out.



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02 Sep 2011, 10:28 pm

You both flirted and "made out" during the evening.

Sounds like a fun evening.

The fun is often in the "making out and flirting" - I hope you and she had fun.

Sounds like you are doing everything right!!

As for having a girl accompanying you home and the flirting becoming a full sexual act. Remember - it is a numbers game. This time, you didn't get the girl home and have the full sexual act - but another time or another girl - and this will be the case.

In the meantime - have fun and enjoy flirting and making out :D



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03 Sep 2011, 8:38 am

Just my usual disappointed drunk state... :P