Belfast wrote:
While I was growing up, my family always had a cat or two, no other pets. I liked the cat(s) better than my family or "friends". I really missed the presence of a cat when I lived in college dorm room. After leaving school I moved into an apartment w/roommate & cats. Later, when we moved separately, I (gladly) inherited his cats-saved me the task of picking out one from a shelter, and I already had built up close relationship with these two.
Live on my own now & have a cat that I adore & treasure, as a creature I enjoy talking to & interacting with. She keeps me company, she sits on my lap whenever I'm seated on the toilet (know that's bizarre, but it wasn't my idea-it was hers), and challenges me with just-barely-manageable chaos. I cannot tolerate children-my cat functions as my focus instead. The effort of taking care of/accomodating her is worth it to me, because I like my cat so much.
I like "plain" cats, domestic shorthairs of no particular extreme characteristics (behaviorally or physically), female only-my personality gets along well with human males, but not male animals. Prefer adult cats to kittens, same as with people. Like having a cat that isn't "special" looking or difficult to maintain, one that others might not appreciate because she's "boring" looking.
Cow Kitty does not behave very much differently than her male counterparts. I do notice that a lot of female cats tend to be a bit more shy but Cow Kitty tries to get everyone to pay attention to her... except my uncle Geoff, she hates him, I've never seen Cow Kitty get mad like when Geoff picked her up. (I about beat him up because one time he picked her up by the scruff of her neck and you aren't supposed to do that with adult cats, I didn't know what he did at the time I just knew she was in pain from the sound she made) She is a little jumpy around certain people but she has absolutely no fear of me. (I have to be careful with her because she doesn't lash out at me like she should) Most female cats are more difficult to work with than most male cats though. My friend's cat Sandi would get on my lap and if I tried to shoo her off she would growl and try to bite me. I can't really see why one would prefer one gender of cat over another.