kotshka wrote:
I'm told I'm "mild" because I can live independently and my social skills are pretty good (after years of hard work). On the other hand, my sensory issues are really quite severe and I have terrible head-banging-against-wall meltdowns at least once a week, more often if work is stressful.
I assume you're asking about the full autism spectrum, meaning low-functioning vs. high-functioning, so I'd be mild on that scale as I am able to care for myself. But I think it's a bit of an oversimplification. I've known aspies who have horrible social skills despite years of training as well as things like face-blindness that make them unable to function completely normally, but they have almost no sensory issues and never have meltdowns.
I relate to this. My sensory issues prevent me from coping with normal life, apart from anything else.
I think this is kind of an oversimplification sure, but in any case I chose severe because that is how I view the affect it has had on my life and still does.
Whether that would be objectively true or not, I have no idea.
I am not mild however, I would not say that at all.
I relate to another poster that says it depends on what day he has. Some days socially, I'm flying.
Then other days, I get treated badly, or I ''don't get it'', or I miss the mark, and it knocks me right back.
I suppose Autism is changeable because sensitivity to the environment means the good or the bad can be brought out either more or less.
My bilateral co-ordinatiion is dreadful, I hate it. THAT makes me feel like a cripple.
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