skibum wrote:
t don't spend a lot of time on these thoughts. When they come, acknowledge them and then let them go.
Excellent advice! This is the best way for handling many things.
And it gets easier when you have been through it a few times and found that you can let it go.
I also make the conscious choice to think about things that make me happy. So I will go for a walk on the beach or in the woods and think about cosmology, because that puts me in a good and happy state.
I have read somewhere that thinking angry thoughts about a person who wronged you is like drinking poison and hoping someone else will die. Your rage-filled, vengeful thoughts stress you and do nothing to them. Let them go, replace them with something positive.