Is WrongPlanet cliquey?
I would like to be not eggscluded from this eggstraordinary eggsample of egg-cliquery.
But I want to keep my cat.
I must be outside the clique because I have not idea what everyone is talking about - and I'm a chicken.

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Diagnosed Asperger's
I would like to be not eggscluded from this eggstraordinary eggsample of egg-cliquery.
But I want to keep my cat.
I must be outside the clique because I have not idea what everyone is talking about - and I'm a chicken.


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"I'm bad and that's good. I'll never be good and that's not bad. There's no one I'd rather be than me."
Wreck It Ralph
I would like to be not eggscluded from this eggstraordinary eggsample of egg-cliquery.
But I want to keep my cat.
I must be outside the clique because I have not idea what everyone is talking about - and I'm a chicken.

I think that it is all some kind of yolk!
I would like to be not eggscluded from this eggstraordinary eggsample of egg-cliquery.
But I want to keep my cat.
I must be outside the clique because I have not idea what everyone is talking about - and I'm a chicken.

I think that it is all some kind of yolk!
I just wanted to say egg.
KingdomOfRats
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Age: 41
Gender: Female
Posts: 4,833
Location: f'ton,manchester UK
I don't think it's being unable to relate. I can relate to a lot of things you say and your beliefs and opinions.
I think the thing that makes you un-approachable is that you keep saying you are intellectually disabled while writing all that profoundly intelligent intellectual stuff.
reported,have known for sometime had a problem as have been taking pot shots at the ID -have not got a clue how it affects those of us with it at a mild level,have not even taken time to read the blog of mine otherwise woud have seen the diagnosis reports,so have reported this to the mods,theyre welcome to phone the care home company of mine to confirm it-just give the word,am not going to be called a liar when being truthful is a major point of mine.
stop pyschologicaly projecting own thoughts onto other people here as its very upsetting especialy as am severely depressed and dont need a resentful user being nasty when am nothing but nice to everyone else.
have been diagnosed with learning disability [UK definition of intelectual disability] entire life, and last september when was sectioned in a ID secure hospital,was assessed over four months given not just the WAIS but functional assessments and mum and dad were sat down with them to go over history from baby age-was rediagnosed from severe ID to mild ID, here is the topic had written about it;
http://theresidentialautist.blogspot.co ... nosis.html
here is the ID diagnosis sheet;
[URL redacted by WP moderator for privacy reasons]
and here is the beginning of the five page report;
[URL redacted by WP moderator for privacy reasons]
they actualy used the blog of mine as part of their assessment.
wish had never gone to hospital,coud have just got marybird to diagnose and treat the crisis instead for free to save the NHS some money,nice to know we can relie on fellow autists to make someone who is already severely depressed even worse.
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>severely autistic.
>>the residential autist; http://theresidentialautist.blogspot.co.uk
blogging from the view of an ex institutionalised autism/ID activist now in community care.
>>>help to keep bullying off our community,report it!
Tollorin
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Location: Sherbrooke, Québec, Canada
I don't want to read your blog.
Sadly he take it rather seriously. http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt267206.html

I don't want to read your blog.
I'm not sure why you wouldn't take the opportunity to merely clear it up, rather than deflect the responsibility of what you said. You weren't MEANING to be nasty, fine.
But the fact remains that you were presenting that KingdomOfRats states intellectual disability and then compared it to what you characterize as "intelligent intellectual stuff" which suggests you see a discrepancy.
If directed at me, I would feel that you were challenging me on the former, yeah. This is a board for support centered around individuals who frequently experience communication difficulties. Merely saying "I wasn't acting that way" doesn't really go far in establishing that you weren't actually being nasty. Explaining your intention or your meaning might.
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KingdomOfRats
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thanks for explaining SoL [and am sorry have not got back yet on the PM,am finding it extremely difficult to interact at the moment because of the depression.].
WTF...leave alone? sorry but dont start something like that and bugger off without any respect to how have made the target feel;aspergers is no excuse to attack other members disabilities-theres always the private message method if have got a problem or speaking to moderators but had chose to post it publicaly and then pyschologicaly project the resentment have got onto other users as to why they may not relate, am not doing anything other than sticking up for self.
thanks to that offensive message was very recently wrestled from strangling self with a cable by support staff,have reached the end of it,people who post ignorant stuff towards other people need to take responsibility for how they affect other peoples lives.
it doesnt matter say it was nasty or not,as the target of that message it was bloody well nasty, as someone who suffers from massive anxiety around being called a liar in any area of life or belief its nasty, as someone suffering from severe depression its nasty,as a vulnerable intelectualy disabled adult without the emotional or mental capacity to deal with bullyish comments it was nasty.
take responsibility instead of buggering off,otherwise it does give the impression that have set out to cause harm.
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>severely autistic.
>>the residential autist; http://theresidentialautist.blogspot.co.uk
blogging from the view of an ex institutionalised autism/ID activist now in community care.
>>>help to keep bullying off our community,report it!
l
I've been here for some years now and even started a special thread with several hundred thousand views. However I still feel like an outsider
here.
A couple of people have messaged me over the years and were shocked to discover that despite my visiting here almost every couple of days I have not made any friends on WP.
I'm not too fussed about people overseas as it's unrealistic to spark or ignite long distance friendships anyway. My only disappointment was posting a invitation to WP people in Melbourne Australia to meet up for a coffee. I had zero interest. Since then I don't particularly care anymore if people relate to me or not.
I don't think it's being unable to relate. I can relate to a lot of things you say and your beliefs and opinions.
I think the thing that makes you un-approachable is that you keep saying you are intellectually disabled while writing all that profoundly intelligent intellectual stuff.
Whoa horsie!...KOR never ever said she was intellectually disabled...she is severely affected by autism and other stuff. Careful how you construct your words...
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