QuiversWhiskers wrote:
It's like introverts usually come away from social interactions or from being with people and end up tired, exhausted, in shutdown, or meltdown, or feeling sick even though they weren't horribly miserable while out with the people. It's like an energy drain. You don't feel able to do much of anything else outside your normal routine or solitary activities or nothing at all.
Extroverts go out with people and when it's over they are usually "energized" from it: feel empowered, want to do more, feel like they could do anything at the time. I am not an extrovert but this is what I imagine extroverts might experience from my occasional experiences of not feeling drained (physically empty) and worn out after being out with people.
What about those who feel "drained"
during social interactions (for me, I have a hard time figuring out what to say to others -- and oftentimes just follow the conversation while remaining silent), but
afterwards, feel "energized" (having survived it).