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Deinonychus
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15 Feb 2016, 10:00 pm

my mom sometimes thinks i being rude when im not


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15 Feb 2016, 10:13 pm

All of the time, as I lack facial expression and tone of voice.



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15 Feb 2016, 10:20 pm

sometimes

I'm usually pretty quite and reserved, I don't like bringing attention to myself so I generally try to be polite.



zkydz
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15 Feb 2016, 11:11 pm

Constantly. It's the unfiltered bluntness and tone I am told.


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16 Feb 2016, 9:27 am

Apparently I "have an attitude" - seems I become very serious very quickly, this is probably due to being overwhelmed in stress situations and putting all my effort into extricating myself...



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16 Feb 2016, 9:30 am

Yup - sometimes. I try to be as polite as I can but I get it wrong from time to time.

One of the things I've tried to help with this is to tell people I'm close to that I dont always iunderstand that I'm being rude and ask them to give me some gentle feedback if I'm getting it wrong. This helps me learn how to avoid being unintentionally rude to people.


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16 Feb 2016, 12:21 pm

Yep, that's why I like to avoid people as much as I can


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