I can't figure out how to start this so I'll just jump right in. For various reasons I've suspected for a few years that I may be autistic. Due to crappy US employer based healthcare that requires over a $3000 deductible to even use, and a lack of healthcare options in the rural area I live in, I can't access comprehensive testing. I can, though, now afford to see a psychologist (PsyD, whatever that means) out of pocket, who has worked with females on the spectrum and says she can explore a diagnosis.
Now, I'm really just doing this to better understand myself and to be able to talk with those close to me about who I am and what I need, and I don't currently need any social services. That said, I feel a strong desire to know "officially" for whatever that's worth.
So, is it "official" if the diagnosis is made through speaking with a Psychologist, doing an extensive history, and possibly a few questionnaires, but no IQ-type testing? What "counts" as an official diagnosis in the US?
I've googled the heck out of this, but can't seem to figure it out. Anyone know?