LipstickKiller wrote:
AS is by its very definition a disability and an impairment. If you're not disabled and impaired in some way, but you only have traits that you consider positive then you have autistic traits, not AS, unless someone can say objectively that you are in fact impaired even though you don't experience it that way yourself.
But NT-s can also be regarded as "impaired". If in some other planet the majority were aspies, NT-s would have difficulty fitting in. Also, since aspies have some areas in which they are better than NT, one can re-phrase it as saying that NT is "worse" in these areas than aspie thus calling NT impaired.
In light of this, neither side is "impaired" rather they are different. Just like one person might be better in one thing and the other in something else. The reason the specific aspects in which aspies are worse are called "impairment" while the ones in which NT-s are worse are not called that, is simply that aspies happen to be a minority. So in light of this, it is the way majority judges the minority that puts them into "impaired" category.
Besides, social skills, strictly speaking, is NOT an ability to get something done. Rather, it is an ability to act in a way that earns approval from others. So, "lack of social skills" simply means that others judge you for your differences, and that is what trully disables you. In the past when women or blacks didn't have as much apportunity as white men, one can say that being a woman or a black impairs your social skills since it deprives you of an apportunity to get ppl to do what you want, thus making it a "disability". In case of asperger, same thing. What if some NT-s simply don't like if your movements look un-coordinated, so they don't want to talk to you, and then you are labeled as having "poor social skills".