Aggressive behaviors

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Has anyone ever bitten, kick, scratched, or hit someone, or threw things when they were little? I used to in elementary school. I was asking because I know aggressive behaivors can be part of having autism.

I only hit and/or bit people occasionially during elementery school. This was done in self defense...usually when I'd had more than enough of being bullied and "snapped". I don't get any pleasure out of hitting people, but I do enjoy thinking/talking about hitting people, which is likely just as bad.

I'm actually pretty timid most of the time, but when I get angry I can get a bit aggressive mentally and I'm relentless. A teacher sent me to the office for playing a harmless good-natured prank in high school, everyone laughed, but I cussed her out so badly I made her cry. The students in the class were telling me to stop but I wouldn't, it was a righteous autistic meltdown.

I only hit if one of my small minded classmates got me angry enough to do so. That happened once or twice a year.

I have to say before I went to school I was pretty easy going as a child the NT children then young adults made me aggressive, paranoid, and vindictive inorder to cope with their tormenting me.

When I was about four I would sometimes bite my older cousin hard enough to break the skin, even though I wasn't provoked, wasn't angry with him, and couldn't explain why I felt the need to do it. I could also be very verbally abusive to some adults for no apparent reason, for years. I had a lot of irrational impulses, knew there was no point to them, and had very little control over them. I don't know if it was because I was abused (which I was), if it was genetic, or both, but I think I was quite sociopathic as a kid. I'm just glad I leveled out as I matured, as far as this sort of thing goes. :/

i bited people &hit em when i was kid

Yes but I only did it when I got picked on after I had said "leave me alone" too many times. Guess who always got into trouble?

Then I did it when we moved to Montana because I wanted everyone to be afraid of me so they wouldn't pick on me and mess with me. I believed I was getting bullied not evening knowing it was innocent behavior kids were doing. Same as when I get bumped in the halls, I thought it was intentional so I had to defend myself not even realizing I was the bully. And yeah victims can turn into bullies because they are so traumatized so they think they are getting picked on when they are not so they bully thinking they are defending themselves. But I snapped out of it.

But when I was in 6th grade, I was getting into so many fights with my bullies, my school wanted to put me in a classroom with violent kids.

When I was a toddler I did it more because I couldn't talk. I also remember doing it for no reason.

Whenever people teased me back in elementary and middle schools, I would yell, scream, and curse at my offenders, and then cry. I would also react the same way to people that are playing harmless jokes on me.....jokes that I failed to understand or just took too seriously. I always felt the urge the react aggressively against my bullies and offenders, because it was a way for me to release my anger and frustration.

I am actually fairly non-violent by default and it takes a bit to get me to do anything. I remember in school I fought back against bullies, and like League_Girl, I'd get in trouble for it. I tended to go all out too, which didn't help: I mean biting, kicking, punching, scratching, everything was fair game.

Conduct disorder was mentioned to me once when I was 16 but I don't have it. Can you have it for temporary and then get over it? Can you have it for a year and then not have it anymore when things are better?

I read that ODD can lead to it and maybe my ex aspie mate had it. Someone told me in PM it sounded more like conduct disorder than ODD.

I was a biter, grabber and thrower.