There is a kind of woman that are "mankillers".

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here is the denastified, child-safe, impossible to open by adults of the original post that began this slapfight:

although i am blind to the secret silent language of the NTs, apparently i transmit.
on several occasions i seem to be attractive to girls who are meany poopyheads. often they were pestered in childhood as I was.
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Is there such a category of person who hunt for weakened boys in order to harm them? Or are they just meany, big poopyheads that kick you when you're not looking?

I fell in love hard, only once with a girl who accidentally resembled my childhood sweetheart( who i still miss after nearly 50 years)
I was informed she bore the nickname of "the Black Kitten of San Pedro" because two men had got too sad over her.
I was very nearly too sad too, saved only by a the co-incidence of a fortunate phone call.
She was pestered a lot by her grandfather in childhood, became a junk bunny in adulthood, and was utterly naughty and bad. very very bad...
later i found out she was a lady who drove a dump truck, which I would have seen instantly if i wasn't deaf-blind to the Secret Speech.
she meant boys harm; the sad ones were probably her score-card. She was a fraud, a skillful illusion of a womyn.
Any man with a bag of bunny food was in for a grateful nuzzling in return.
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She said one of the sweetest things i have ever heard. when her current boyfriend accosted her over the generous supply of party balloons in her purse. he was very much in love with her, and she knew this.
She told him"those are for your birthday party next week, you silly!"

I mean-Easter bunny!The Easter bunny on a rocket sled. That remark pierced me and the world darkened
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He was a musician. after she dumped him when the credit cards maxed out, he wrote a song called "I'm glad I Ever Met You".
The last i heard he was engaged in the task of building a model airplane.
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It was his phone call that saved me, he talked me down.
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she was just an entertainment center, like a jukebox or something; coin-operated. You could also use a credit card. fun for a bunny comes in a little plastic bag of green alfalfa pellets- they love 'em.. real love from a real soul is a pale substitute.

what boy's love can compete with the little man on the cute widdle white pony?
As Bukowski wrote, "Love is a Dog from Heck".

Happy now, fern?
better move the original to the grown ups room; I could not edit replace or delete it.

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or as one John Warren Geils Jr. tartly observed, "Love Stinks."

Yeah, with all the modern push for equality, somehow the female villain has vanished from popular culture. My ex would launch a vendetta against anyone who accidentally reminded her of someone else.

My recent ex is the only person I know whose last three spouses are either crazy or dead . I left before being driven absolutely crazy by her communication style . She was totally incapable of using proper nouns so I had to always guess who she was talking about and , you guessed it , I was always wrong . Crazymaking stuff for an autistic person . I think that being vague , misleading or cryptic is about the most toxic thing that another person can do to us . Pure frustration .

Unfortunately the damaged attracts the damaged and people on the spectrum can be easy prey for sociopaths.

I knew a family where the son was an MD promoting meditation, and the daughter shizophrenic. I never saw the mother and son together, but I observed mother and daughter carefully. The mother would frequently make ambiguous statements, forcing the daughter to guess the meaning. After decades, you would expect her to be right over half the time, but she was ALWAYS WRONG. I concluded that the mother chose her meaning after the daughter had made her guess. The daughter did kill herself.

hmm, something's wrong here.



That sounds more accurate. Because you only date women, you might only be seeing the females who are like this, but in my experience there are plenty of males out there like this too.

We are inundated with news about bad men. This did not dispute those stories, it tried to supplement them.

Watch out dude or you will be on the misogyny black list before you know it.

You are not allowed to mention a woman/women in any bad light else it is misogyny.

From hence forth The words man/men & woman/women should not be used as it's too confusing for some..
You must use the word person or people.
And just to be on the safe don't use he/she pronouns either.

Ferris out

Is that in your official capacity, or tongue in cheek? I'm not unfamiliar with irritated sexists.

Fern wrote:[
i]Watch out dude or you will be on the misogyny black list before you know it.

You are not allowed to mention a woman/women in any bad light else it is misogyny.

From hence forth The words man/men & woman/women should not be used as it's too confusing for some..
You must use the word person or people.
And just to be on the safe don't use he/she pronouns either.

Ferris out Image[/i]

I wrote:
She was a fraud, a skillful illusion of a woman.

my point was precisely this:
she was not a woman in any real sense. she was a vengeful addicted injured and broken junkie. she was near as screwed up as I'm, and I'm pretty screwed up, having several co-morbid conditions, if I am using that term correctly.
As somebody else wrote,"The injured attract the injured." Succinct.
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I love the hell out of Woman, or would if I had one. The loss of hope of never ever having that came nigh to killing me for the third time not long ago.
I began to drink heavily, hoping to have the third and final heart attack in my sleep (you only get three .). All I accomplished was burning out my nervous system due to a nearly lethal thiamine and potassium deficiency.
I must walk with a cane now as a consequence.
I am by no means a misogynist, but offer my appy-polly-woggies*to all that may have been annoyed or offended anyway.
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It was the Chinese Maiden haiku, wasn't it?
Well, I thought it was funny as hell.

To be banned here would be a disaster, as this site and community has already greatly helped me, almost at once, and I was nearly prostrate with helplessness.
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please don't cast me back out into the bad nastycold place ...I am the only one there and it is [i]very cold-[i] lifeless and frigid as the surface of Mars.

Hey, waitaminnit- are we not all Aspies first here, with gender lower down on the hierarchy of difference?
'Nuff Said- there are a few landmines here and there, apparently.
In re with the pronouns:

How about She?



coda: is there a book club or the like here? most of my world is written on pages.
(Vonnegut, Steinbeck,Trout, Douglas Adams(RIP), Terry Prattchett(RIP),Harlan Ellison(NDY), Christopher Moore ,Larry Niven, Greg Egan, lee Smollett, Roger penrose, hard sf, hard science, theory of mind,quantum cosmology, functional neurology etc.




*a NADSAT term- ref the works of Anthony Burgess-

tongue in cheek dude , I wish I could turn off my mod light sometimes , not everything I say is mod related. I thought the absurdity of my comment might of been obvious , sorry for the confusion dude. I was not moderating you , I was being a sarcastic twat.

Not my call. I doubt you will be banned for this thread alone but like I say , not my call. Don't be surprised if it disappears or gets moved , the language used is not suitable for the General Forum.

I said I was sorry. I guess I did not make myself clear.

Reviewing it anew just now, yah, the language was pretty over the top, but my anger is my dominant emotion. it is the strongest part of me; i nurture it like a son. It has been my only shield along with blackest of humour. Once things stopped being funny: i never got it back.
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"She"(for illusory values of "she") was the greatest disappointment of my ragged little low ceilinged life- I nearly murdered myself to escape the pain.
I simply decided I no longer wanted any more of the hurting days. she was tantamount to an assassin.an evil thing, not a woman.

I had hoped you would understand.
... I hurt.
with the depression.
lifelong.
Every hour, without pause or respite. please make allowances for this mortally sick man.I am not yet house-broken.
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This site is my last and only hope. If i were cast back out , I might slip over into that black pit with the slick sloped sides(It actually looks like that).
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If the thread be moved, where? somewhere without concealed (to me) land mines, perhaps?

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Adult Issues , still visible to all 17+ members

And it's not a case of me understanding , it's a case of the mod who deals with the report understanding.

I understand now .
I had no idea children could be present. Sorry to have crapped all over your floor.