ShawnWilliam wrote:
Nan wrote:
If you are able to work, you should be working and not drawing disability - which is meant for people who have no choice and cannot work.
I think thats the point aint it..? who determines who is able and who is not?.. Every job ive ever had ive quit without notice because I just couldnt handle it..
But having said that, I hope there's something out there that i can do without losing my way.. id rather not be suicidal. Writing novels, playing music, these things would be optimum if I could find a way to make money off of them.. hopefully one day I can.
Since the application process is long and slow, why not begin it, while simultaneously looking at options that would earn you money without overwhelming you.
I think it's one of the more difficult to see effects of AS, the inability to cope in certain environments. Not just discomfort, but inability. I know it's very real. But hopefully you can find a job in an environment that would not trigger all that.
My husband, btw, quits his jobs every four or five years because he's just "had enough." Fortunately, it is easy for him to find new jobs, he is quite skilled, and he tends to enjoy the new challenges for a few years before the negatives of a place start to wear on him. Since it plays out over 4 or 5 years, it's a liveable situation. But if this cycle is playing out for you much more quickly, it is a real impairment.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).