06 Nov 2010, 2:54 pm
06 Nov 2010, 2:55 pm
06 Nov 2010, 2:59 pm
Fixer_Girl wrote:
Fixer_Girl wrote:
ASS-P wrote:
...I have read this post , IHAREP everything else post-myl ast post 
, allow me , please , to be Mr. Literal and start out with this...
Were I to go elsewhere , I would of course need to clean up , put on some new clothes ,and , carrying a suitcase with at least a second pair of clothes and some necessities and something to read , take a plane or a bus to Whereverville .
How would this be paid for ?
Oh , and a person who handles themself "____Girl " stands a fairly good chance of being underage (or " just past " said stage , 18-25 , especially if an Aspie , after all , I guess )...Need I say more ?
Frankly , too , I don't have a lot of skills - Computers ? I am not a computer genius by virtue of being as Aspie , and even as far as typing I am not a " trained " typist ( I look at the board while typing
. ) . Physical stuff - there's that " diabetic ulcer on the bottom of my feet " pesky thangwhich I've had , non-stop/close to it , for years , another manifestation of something that already led to 1/2 a toe being amputated and the usual warnings from the medical personell I've seen regarding the possibility for more...I am pointing all of this boringly practical stuff out , not trying to shoot it down 1005 .
, allow me , please , to be Mr. Literal and start out with this...Were I to go elsewhere , I would of course need to clean up , put on some new clothes ,and , carrying a suitcase with at least a second pair of clothes and some necessities and something to read , take a plane or a bus to Whereverville .
How would this be paid for ?
Oh , and a person who handles themself "____Girl " stands a fairly good chance of being underage (or " just past " said stage , 18-25 , especially if an Aspie , after all , I guess )...Need I say more ?
Frankly , too , I don't have a lot of skills - Computers ? I am not a computer genius by virtue of being as Aspie , and even as far as typing I am not a " trained " typist ( I look at the board while typing
. ) . Physical stuff - there's that " diabetic ulcer on the bottom of my feet " pesky thangwhich I've had , non-stop/close to it , for years , another manifestation of something that already led to 1/2 a toe being amputated and the usual warnings from the medical personell I've seen regarding the possibility for more...I am pointing all of this boringly practical stuff out , not trying to shoot it down 1005 .OK, I've sat back and watched for a day, to see where you would go with this.
Let me start by saying that yes, initially it was a "Put up, or, Shut up" kind of deal.
However, I've had time to sleep on it, and speak with my family about this situation.
We - as a family - are completely willing to help you out if you are a fellow aspie that's fallen on hard times.
Regarding your concerns, let me address those now.
Location - I live in Virginia.
Transportation - I will drive to you, collect you and drive home again.
Accomodation - We have a room that you can use until you get on your feet.
Medical - I'm a qualified medical professional; I'll help you regulate your diabetic issues and also dress your wounds daily.
Future Education and Job prospects - My family and I will pay for you to go to school here, to study what you need to become a phlebotomist (you may have to google that). Now that's not a great job, however, you only have to take 3 classes to qualify, all of which can be completed in one semester. When you are qualified, you will earn pretty good money for a one semester trained field - around $30 - $40 an hour in our area. Once you have a job, you can find your own place and then you can go anywhere you want from there. If you wish to train further and become a registered nurse for example - you will have both the contacts and the money to do so.
So there you have it - the offer is there if you want it.
Now, that said, let's assume you are possibly not on the level. Let me detail how that situation will be handled. I'm former military. My husband is active service military. We have two daughters. If you feel that this is an opportunity to attempt to flees us, to fiddle with our kids, to burgle us for drug money, or any other severely illegal activity - be warned that I have a mossberg within arms reach while I sleep, and I would have no trouble blowing your brains all over the wall in defense of my family.
If you are on the level and need help, then my family is willing and able to help.
This is the post you are quoting out of context ASS-P. If all you got from this was 'brain splatee', you have more than just being homeless to worry about.
...( Okay , I'm adding this . )
It's a rather crucial additonal point .
I was just replying to one - important - point in it at that time .
The initial answer wasn't intended as a total " No ! "...It was warily pacing around...You , however , responded to it with the " closed and void " statement .
06 Nov 2010, 3:05 pm
06 Nov 2010, 3:14 pm
Fixer_Girl wrote:
Horus wrote:
Knowing me.....i'd be VERY suspicious. I must admit it DOES SOUND too good to be true. All sorts of nightmarish scenarios would be running through my mind.
For instance....I would wonder if Fixer Girl and her husband were serial killers like Karla Holmolka and Paul Bernardo.
Maybe they'd sexually torture me and grind me into Italian/German/Jewish/Serbian sausage.
I guess i'm too much of a cynic and a misanthrope. The more rational part me realizes there ARE people out there as generous and kind-hearted as Fixer Girl likely is.
They may be as rare as Charlie Sheen's moments of sobriety....but they do exist.How exactly do you expect me to react to what you have just written about me and my family?
We are offering help, and you seem to be obliging us to prove our innocence as if we are on trial - where do you get off doing that?
I have stated that my husband is serving in the military, hard to do if you're a serial killer.
Me? Well I have a greencard - which you can't get with a criminal record of any kind. I underwent a full background check through the FBI before I was granted permanent residence status.
Frankly, what you have written says a lot about you and nothing about me and my family.
ASS-P is homeless, with no money, food or medical care. How does your 'stirring sh't' help him in any way?
Fixer_Girl, I don't think he meant to speak to you, personally, but the real fact that anyone can say anything on the internet, and that truth is hard to verify. Me, I have my little clues I look for, but when it comes to your honesty these posters don't have access to some of the clues I've had access to, so they are going to be more suspicious. When you read in the news about all the horrible things that have happened following internet hookups, I'm not going to tell them they are overboard wrong; over the internet, everyone must keep a skeptical eye.
Still, I very much think ASS-P should accept your offer. But is even my opinion suspect? Of course it is. While I know that I am who I say I am, how do any of these posters know it?
Anyway. There is more conversation for me to read. I'll do that before I make any more comments.
06 Nov 2010, 3:19 pm
DW_a_mom wrote:
Fixer_Girl wrote:
Horus wrote:
Knowing me.....i'd be VERY suspicious. I must admit it DOES SOUND too good to be true. All sorts of nightmarish scenarios would be running through my mind.
For instance....I would wonder if Fixer Girl and her husband were serial killers like Karla Holmolka and Paul Bernardo.
Maybe they'd sexually torture me and grind me into Italian/German/Jewish/Serbian sausage.
I guess i'm too much of a cynic and a misanthrope. The more rational part me realizes there ARE people out there as generous and kind-hearted as Fixer Girl likely is.
They may be as rare as Charlie Sheen's moments of sobriety....but they do exist.How exactly do you expect me to react to what you have just written about me and my family?
We are offering help, and you seem to be obliging us to prove our innocence as if we are on trial - where do you get off doing that?
I have stated that my husband is serving in the military, hard to do if you're a serial killer.
Me? Well I have a greencard - which you can't get with a criminal record of any kind. I underwent a full background check through the FBI before I was granted permanent residence status.
Frankly, what you have written says a lot about you and nothing about me and my family.
ASS-P is homeless, with no money, food or medical care. How does your 'stirring sh't' help him in any way?
Fixer_Girl, I don't think he meant to speak to you, personally, but the real fact that anyone can say anything on the internet, and that truth is hard to verify. Me, I have my little clues I look for, but when it comes to your honesty these posters don't have access to some of the clues I've had access to, so they are going to be more suspicious. When you read in the news about all the horrible things that have happened following internet hookups, I'm not going to tell them they are overboard wrong; over the internet, everyone must keep a skeptical eye.
Still, I very much think ASS-P should accept your offer. But is even my opinion suspect? Of course it is. While I know that I am who I say I am, how do any of these posters know it?
Anyway. There is more conversation for me to read. I'll do that before I make any more comments.
DW, you seem like a really nice person, and from the stuff you say online, you seem pretty constant with your approach to situations and issues at hand.
So how's this?
I'll PM you the logins to all of my security feed cameras that are all over my house. You can view them, and then report back to the others if I am on the level or not.
I'm essentially opening my house to you.
That's a heck of a lot more than anyone else is offering as a means to identify who they are.
However, from the way ASS-P is acting, there's no way on earth I'm helping him anymore.
I don't need to take his BS. I offered help, and he countered with quoting me out of context in an effort to undermine my integrity - I'm not having that. If that's how he treats the people that offer to help him, I'd hate to see how he treats his enemies.
06 Nov 2010, 3:33 pm
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06 Nov 2010, 3:45 pm
Fixer girl i wouldnt even help ASS-P out, this guy doesnt want the help. he wants to complain!
He isnt intrested in helping himself. (his homeless topic has been going on for nearly damn near 2 years now) everyone has tried helping him. this isnt the red cross's website! its a freaking board for autism
And i'm almost tempted to act homeless just so i can come live at your house, you rule! 
Say wanna adopt a attractive 30 year old aspergers dude?
my family sucks. 
06 Nov 2010, 3:54 pm
richardbenson wrote:
Fixer girl i wouldnt even help ASS-P out, this guy doesnt want the help. he wants to complain!
He isnt intrested in helping himself. (his homeless topic has been going on for nearly damn near 2 years now) everyone has tried helping him. this isnt the red cross's website! its a freaking board for autism
And i'm almost tempted to act homeless just so i can come live at your house, you rule!
Say wanna adopt a attractive 30 year old aspergers dude?
my family sucks.
He isnt intrested in helping himself. (his homeless topic has been going on for nearly damn near 2 years now) everyone has tried helping him. this isnt the red cross's website! its a freaking board for autism
And i'm almost tempted to act homeless just so i can come live at your house, you rule!
Say wanna adopt a attractive 30 year old aspergers dude?
my family sucks.
lol
My husband might have an issue with me adopting 30 year old aspies - not because you're aspie!
That's funny though! Thank you, you made me laugh.
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06 Nov 2010, 4:01 pm
I understand, i was just trying to be funny. 
I know one thing, if someone was offering me a nice warm place to sleep and to take care of my nasty ass foot i'd grow wings and fly there.
dont waste your time on the guy.
06 Nov 2010, 4:04 pm
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06 Nov 2010, 5:51 pm
wait a minute ass-p has a home? i thought he was homeless!
And yes, it is a sick thing to take atvantage of anyone but especially a bunch of disabled people.
Frankly i dont think this guy cares, i mean his typing on here seems to clean up well nice when he's trying to convince us he doesnt need any help, and when hes looking for attention makes about as much sence as a elephant with a keyboard. i mean really! 
