johnnyh wrote:
You guys really just need to stop pretending. It is depressing, maybe even heart wrenching to have to look deep inside and see all your defects, our defects, I know so many of you want to believe you are not in an unfair situation. I was there, I know what it feels like to think others are what's wrong, that society has been persecuting supposedly special individuals and we thought we were ahead of our peers but they saw how slow we really were and what annoying repetitive creeps we would be. It is frightening and gives great anxiety to our very existence, we may even feel suicidal at times when we confront it, but learning to confront it together and look for some hope will keep us alive. Put aside your pride and really look at it from a rational and logical point of view, just try. Stop romanticizing autism. It is a disorder, and part of it for some of you is the inability to realize that, a lack of self awareness. Every day you continue to push this is another day progress is set back, another day added to potential suffering, another day added to the journey to a better society. Please.....just stop, I'm begging you, all of you, and for those who understand me, pass it on. As for the rest, you've wasted decades being on the wrong side of history. It breaks my heart it has to be this way. Please stop.
I'm very glad that when I was a kid, the term "Asperger's Syndrome" didn't exist,
so the label I was given instead was
"gifted."
Words mean things.
People tend to live up to or down to other people's expectations.
If I'd been labeled with autism or Asperger's,
I think my life would have been far worse.
Am I gifted in everything?
Absolutely not.
Are there things I struggle with?
Absolutely yes.
What I do in all situations is do my best to be the best version of myself.
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