Are aspies more (or less) ashamed of being nude in public?

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25 Dec 2014, 4:55 pm

I find people more attractive when they are wearing clothes.
Naked human bodies are not good-looking, in my opinion.
I like plaid shirts (esp. if pattern looks like graph paper) and military uniforms on men.


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25 Dec 2014, 4:59 pm

Well I probably would not care that terribly much, though typically public nudity is not something allowed most places. At least here, though as far as I know there are specified nudist sort of locations. But yeah I just find it more comfortable having clothes a lot of times though sometimes when its really hot out I wish it wasn't expected. But yeah I guess I don't see why our society has made nudity synonymous with 'sex'...people take showers naked and that's got nothing to do with sex so why would walking around with no clothes on?

I have of course changed for swimming in dressing rooms....and that does not make me uncomfortable I don't really care if anyone sees me, hell even if there was a lesbian or bisexual female who thought i was attractive I wouldn't care so long as they don't try to force me into anything over it. never been in a situation with naked males and females though...but imagine it wouldn't make a ton of difference.


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25 Dec 2014, 6:12 pm

does anyone have a True Nudists account?



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26 Dec 2014, 8:45 am

Spokane_Girl wrote:
I went nude once at a nude beach two years ago. Everyone saw me in my diaper and I got strange looks according to my husband. I was walking around with no clothes on and I had on a diaper and plastic pants and so did my husband. He said we both got strange looks. I didn't pay attention.


Why was you both in diapers?


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26 Dec 2014, 8:49 am

They might have a digestive condition which makes them incontinent.



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26 Dec 2014, 8:49 am

As for me, I have an okay body....but I don't like to go nude in public.



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26 Dec 2014, 9:52 am

I'm fine with social nudity, at the beach or at a resort. But I'm not an exhibitionist. Walking naked down a public street isn't on my to-do list.


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26 Dec 2014, 11:20 am

WTF? Naked? No way!! I've got too smaller willie. 8 inches is too small - that which one should be ashamed of.


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26 Dec 2014, 1:34 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
They might have a digestive condition which makes them incontinent.


At the old people's home where I work we have to say ''incontinence pads'', or ''pads'' for short. Diapers (or ''nappies'' as we say in the UK) sound too undignifying. But if I ever had to wear incontinence pads I would not show that to the world at a nudist beach. But I don't like the thought of being nude in public, even at a nudist beach. It just wouldn't feel right.


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26 Dec 2014, 5:43 pm

Joe90 wrote:
Spokane_Girl wrote:
I went nude once at a nude beach two years ago. Everyone saw me in my diaper and I got strange looks according to my husband. I was walking around with no clothes on and I had on a diaper and plastic pants and so did my husband. He said we both got strange looks. I didn't pay attention.


Why was you both in diapers?



To see how much attention we get.

No one said a word but we got funny looks and my husband didn't like doing it.


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26 Dec 2014, 6:01 pm

Yes, it is a big error to equate nudity with sex. While they are the same for many NTs (and also for many neurodiverse people), they don't need to be.



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27 Jul 2015, 11:35 pm

I wouldn't know, as I don't have any intentions to go out naked. However, the thought of that does panic me, which is not due to Aspergers. I sometimes have dreams about going out completely topless and not realizing it til much later, then feeling really ashamed.

But, saying that, I can't always be bothered to be private indoors. For example, once I pulled my shorts down in my aunt's living-room (not my underwear though) because she wanted to see a bruise I had on the top of my leg. I wasn't ashamed of doing that because I'm close to my aunt, but her living-room window faces another apartment window, and she anxiously gasped and said "oh mind people don't see through the window" - even though it was daytime and she had nets over the window so you can't see in unless you switch the light on.

It's not that I'm unaware of these things. It's just that I can't always be bothered to be cautious all the time. I love my slim legs anyway, and it's not like I'm showing my...whatever you call girl's bits.


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27 Jul 2015, 11:38 pm

Is...is that even an Aspergers thing? I can't imagine anyone in a relatively stable frame of mind would not feel awkward over being seen nude in public. 8O



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28 Jul 2015, 2:13 am

Spokane_Girl wrote:
I went nude once at a nude beach two years ago. Everyone saw me in my diaper and I got strange looks according to my husband. I was walking around with no clothes on and I had on a diaper and plastic pants and so did my husband. He said we both got strange looks. I didn't pay attention.


Well why the diaper....and perhaps it was because that negated the full nude thing, so people thought it was weird you had anything on.


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