Apergian females are normal?

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Hmm, I dunno about cool. I try not to associate with that word anymore. Personally with me I always get intensely focused on one part of the interests, like obsessed with one character or with my interest in the air force one type of aircraft or even say a part of that aircraft.

Also, the only time I can tell that the girl in the video may have AS is when she struggles at the end to answer a question, but she pulls it off so casually. Usually every conversation I'm in I'm going ummm....ummm...ummm. It's annoying but I have learned to just accept it.

Here, read this blog about my first 10 years and see if I sound normal?

http://latedx.wordpress.com/2011/10/24/ ... -10-years/

I will eventually get to my teenage and adult years when the real social awkwardness comes out.

I'm so sorry to hear how mean people could be to everyone I was teased in elementary school, but I was accepted in middle school. I was accepted and actually protected in high school. I'm starting college this semester, and so far people are good to me here too. I don't know why I've been this lucky...

It is worth noting that not all females with AS are mimics.

Then I am not the average aspie female...

See the big problem with most 'labels' such as aspy, adhd etc is they mainly list the male symptoms, cause for the most part it is mostly males that have these disorders. The problem is when you mix testosterone with these 'disorders' you get a very different result then when u mix estrogen with them. Aspy in girls is generally goes undiagnosed much longer then males because girls are naturally more skilled in aping social norms - so we pick up enough of the rules to kinda be normal, with just a few quirks. Also among girls quirky behaviour is seen as cute from men, rather then just plain weird, like a lot of guys can be labelled.

Further female symptoms are quite different from male symptoms. While male Aspys are foten obsessed with trains and how things work, females often get obsessed with relationship dynamics - which actually helps their quirkiness as they read more and more about it and learnt different things (I can tell u now I have easily 50+ books on different types of relationships - male/female, person/person, personality types, parent/child, mother/son, inner self, etc).

I could go on with the symptoms of Aspys in females, and will if you really want me to (but as an Aspy I am aware that I have a tendency to go on so I wont unless asked), but long story short - I put it to you - Aspy chicks are like most typical chicks, only better! We are not overly sensitive like most females can be, we are far more logical and not half as emotional, we won't max out your credit card cause we are mostly great with numbers and see how that just would not benefit us and most importantly guys - another symptom they are starting to link to female aspys is promiscuity in single aspys A great attribute if u propose to her and get to keep her all to urself

I usually do okay on first impressions, aka my facade. However, as soon as people start to get to know me, and get past the 'mimicry', they back off and don't want to deal with me.
On regular/good days I can go out and do the normal thing and go to a store (as long as I'm familiar with it) and look 'normal', unless I"m just like "I don't care how I look today" and just throw on pjs and my hoody.
In the class 'plays', I always got the main parts because I could mimic and act. It's difficult to keep it up though with real life. I may smile and look happy, but it's a facade. Usually, I'm frustrated inside, or I'm dissasociating and just going into what I've always called 'automatic' mode, where I just FUNCTION and act and not myself.
On good days, I pass off as normal, but on bad days, it's obvious. I'm either stimming, or I have a blank look, or I just look tired.

Anywho, as we've figured out already, I think Aspie girls are harder to find because of their mimicry and with social expectations. However, they are no where from "NT" on the inside.

Also, I feel it's unfair for everyone to bash the OP, because I get the feeling he was just trying to figure out Aspie woman and what not from what he's observed. He's just trying to figure it all out like the rest of us here.