LePetitPrince wrote:
after watching her long interview , she seems very self-confident and smoothly talkative ....weird , but I never watched the show so maybe I cant really judge .
Besides , i hardly believe that such gorgeous girl had never been popular or at least had friends at school ....even if she's aspie, i never recall a gorgeous girl at school with no friends and so much hated at all ...whether she is sociable or quiet she would always attract the attention of many =greater potential of making friends .I read somewhere that Heather's mom said that she was never been invited to birthday, hell even a shorty HFA fugly like me was invited sometimes to birthdays!, beauty helps much in social life in all aspects and i can sense real exaggeration about her social problems.
I totally disagree! I could see how she could have been an outcast or teased in high school. Yes, she is beautiful, but many of the traits we possess are a distraction from what is beautiful physically. A girl will appear awkward, if she has poor posture and walks w/ a slouch. The clumsiness and poor gait does not help either. If this same girl seems spaced out and has quirky twitches, it will make her seem even stranger to NTs. And, most of all, the lack of appropriate social skills and the tendency to be a loner, will only make the beautiful girl seem geeky and gawky. I might also add that a lot of us w/ AS did not follow the same fashion trends as other people, and usually shied away from wearing make-up or doing our hair. Of course, if one (I am talking about a girl) is truly beautiful, chances are they do not need make-up. However, one's style is not actually put together. However, these things can all be learned...
BTW,I think this comment is just narrow-minded in general. A lot of models were considered to be ugly duckilings when they were in high school. And these girls didn't even suffer from AS. Most models were very tall, way to skinny, and gawky looking. Fortunately, these are the traits necessary for being a model.
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