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29 Jul 2009, 8:17 pm

I used to be shy about ordering my own food, buying things but my mother would make me do it myself. I'm glad she did because now I can do it without a problem. When I be on my own, I had no choice but to do it.



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30 Jul 2009, 4:09 am

another thing to my shyness i got really shy been alone with strangers i dont know on the bus this morning and felt really uncomfortable i just wish i had some company :cry: from now on i will be riding a bike to work and avoiding the bus but will miss my bus driver freinds



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30 Jul 2009, 5:21 am

I get shy around strangers too, especially when I go to gigs.


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30 Jul 2009, 5:32 am

I get shy when I'm impressed by someone.
So it's not that often.



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30 Jul 2009, 6:04 am

EL60 wrote:
g'day all

when you go and buy something eg at a milk bar or anywhere does anyone get shy if the person serving you at the counter. i really get shy with a lot of people i dont know does anyone have the same problem like i do ? its so hard to look people in the eyes :cry: :cry:

if so share your expereince
i know, i hate looking strangers in the eyes. particularly attractive ones haha. with people i know well, there's merely slight discomfort.

also don't like to look like i'm looking at people. self-conscious and all that. so if i'm in big social gatherings with alot of people i don't know my gaze will travel all over the place, anywhere to avoid seeming like i'm staring at somebody or i'll choose a point of focus where there's nobody and just look in a direction, but at nothing in particular, resulting in blank stare that makes it look like i'm totally spacing out. but i'm not. just nervous, that's all.


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