I'm still waiting to hear from the NAS.
I think the argument is that if your AS was severe enough for diagnosis to be helpful, they would have spotted it earlier. If you've managed to go undiagnosed up until the age of fourteen, then you obviously have enough skills and resources to cope with the big wide world.
Trouble is my mother didn't want me 'labelled' and so didn't get me diagnosed. I'm currently struggling to get in to the world of work, and struggling with social skills.
I think I may have to be pushy. My idea is that I will book another appointment with my GP and ask what is happening. I'm going to ask to be referred again, and say that if it's not possible then I'd like to be put on anti-depressants and referred to a shrink. If I'm not on the spectrum then I must have some other major problem, so if they aren't willing to invest any effort/money in ASD then they will just have to invest it in whatever they think IS wrong with me. Is that pushy enough do you think?
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