Hmmmn wrote:
It's less a case of identifying with it and more one of finally seeing why certain things kept happening no matter how hard I tried.
Wait, how is that different from identifying with it?

I'd say that I identified with it
because it explained why certain things kept happening no matter what I did. It was like "Woah, so all those things about me that I were told meant that I wasn't trying or was doing something wrong were actually part of what's wrong with me?!" I can't really separate, in my mind, the "identifying" with the "finally seeing."
Or am I defining them differently than you do?