SamwiseGamgee wrote:
Empathizing: 10 - It upset me a lot the first time I took the test and scored so low. It still upsets me now but I don't know how to change it.
I was a little upset when I saw my score also. I'm not sure your reasons for being upset, but I questioned whether or not I was really a caring individual. Then I realized that not having a strong ability to put myself "in someone's shoes" does not mean that I'm not a caring individual. I just don't necessarily know or understand why they are upset. But that doesn't make me care any less.
Also, I don't totally agree that some of the questions are a valid measure of empathy. Some seem like they measure your willingness to adhere to societal norms.
I'm sorry if I'm way off par.