where you unaware of special treatment as a child?

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30 Oct 2009, 12:44 pm

holy shizz, blindspot, mathematician, much?

and poopy, you def. had special treatment!



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30 Oct 2009, 12:55 pm

I never really had special treatment until recently. People thought I was intelligent but obviously wasn't willing to apply myself or something like that. I was diagnosed until I was 14 though and now the difference in the way I'm treated is extremely apparent. It's almost annoying now.



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30 Oct 2009, 12:56 pm

I'm quite good with numbers but nothing like Charlie Epps in 'Numbers'.

I used to derive trig equations from first principles using De Moivre's Theorum in exams, just so I wouldn't finish too early (we weren't allowed to leave before the end of the exam)

It's funny looking back now but here's my line for the week

I thought the square root of -1 (i) was entirely sensible and understandable, but I still haven't worked out the social stuff with people and it isnt easy to understand either :!:


I thought that most of my class were just stupid.........and they knew that I thought that.

They thought I was weird but............I didn't know that I was weird but I knew that they didn't like me :wink:


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30 Oct 2009, 1:39 pm

I'm very well aware of thinking the rest of you class is stupid, Gaia knows mine was ret*d. And, like you, they all knew I thought them stupid. I wasn't into math the way you seem to be though. It's not difficult, but I find it boring. Science is what I enjoyed.

Other than (most) of my teachers treating me like intellectual equals (the one and ONLY thing I enjoyed about school) I didn't have any special treatment. Actually, I did get to sleep often in class, though that was probably because the teachers knew I knew what they were teaching, not from special treatment I think.


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30 Oct 2009, 1:44 pm

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I'm very well aware of thinking the rest of you class is stupid, Gaia knows mine was ret*d. And, like you, they all knew I thought them stupid. I wasn't into math the way you seem to be though. It's not difficult, but I find it boring. Science is what I enjoyed.

Other than (most) of my teachers treating me like intellectual equals (the one and ONLY thing I enjoyed about school) I didn't have any special treatment. Actually, I did get to sleep often in class, though that was probably because the teachers knew I knew what they were teaching, not from special treatment I think.



Actually I was really into science too and was a Science undergraduate.

Found European foreign languages quite easy too.

I absolutely loved Geography and History and I have just found out why. They were my escape into another (better) world........darn, I had world maps on my bedroom wall when I was 4

Struggled with English...............surprise :!:


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30 Oct 2009, 1:53 pm

you guys were little geniuses!
i wasnt very good at school. i did enjoy science, though i didnt know any considerable amount on it.
i had always been obsessed with reptiles, though, and when i was around 9, and my friend got me a reptile magazine, and i joined a reptile forum, the passion became a scarily deep knowledge of them....
i wasnt too academic though. i liked spending time alone in the forest..."hunting" pretending i was a dinosaur by myself. i remember i spent like, 70% of my time as a dinosaur. i liked drawing diagrams of the creatures i made up, and i liked writing their characteristics and drawing their organs and stuff...all my made up animals were pretty down to earth, i remember being pissed when my friends said they're animals they made up had foot long fangs or things of the nature...id think: that's so stupid! it wouldnt be able to open its mouth and grasp prey"



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30 Oct 2009, 1:55 pm

I believe I didn't get in as much trouble as I could have. However, I believe I got special treatment, because I was "rescued" from a bad situation.

At 6, I repeatedly followed a girl around in my class to bite her braid. It was sensory seeking, and I could not explain to the teachers why I did it. I did not get detention for it, though, despite doing it often.



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30 Oct 2009, 1:58 pm

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i liked drawing diagrams of the creatures i made up, and i liked writing their characteristics and drawing their organs and stuff...all my made up animals were pretty down to earth, i remember being pissed when my friends said they're animals they made up had foot long fangs or things of the nature...id think: that's so stupid! it wouldnt be able to open its mouth and grasp prey"


An Artist. That's great. Did you keep all of your diagrams?


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30 Oct 2009, 2:17 pm

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My teachers were always talking to the principal/councilors


Correction..I meant my parents...not teachers...

I did very horribly in school...I just happened to be in the top 1% on some silly standardized tests...
With how badly I did overall, I am amazed that anyone was able to notice that I was actually somewhat intelligent.



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30 Oct 2009, 2:23 pm

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At 6, I repeatedly followed a girl around in my class to bite her braid. It was sensory seeking, and I could not explain to the teachers why I did it. I did not get detention for it, though, despite doing it often.


i used to LOVE biting my braid, the taste, the springy sort of feeling, it's awesome. :lol:

blindspot- i dont really know where they went. :( i have some from middle school and up though. in elementary i was the artist, it was my thing that everyone was in awe of. 8)



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30 Oct 2009, 2:24 pm

poopylungstuffing wrote:
I did very horribly in school...I just happened to be in the top 1% on some silly standardized tests...
With how badly I did overall, I am amazed that anyone was able to notice that I was actually somewhat intelligent.



At school, academic achievement was ALL I had and fortunately for me I went through a school system where achievement was measured entirely by examination.

I shudder to think how I would have performed with all this 'project' and 'course' work that schools throw at the kids now.

My idea of hell would have been a class project or school study group :P


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30 Oct 2009, 2:33 pm

Spazzer, reptiles are quite fascinating, though I only studied the Komodo, the Gila monster, and almost all in the serpentes family. The deadly ones are always more fascinating to me for some reason. I did have a gecko and a chameleon when I was younger along with several snakes. The gecko was a nasty lil bugger and mean as hell, the chameleon was chill and most of my snakes (cept my tree boa) were active and friendly (inasmuch as snakes can be).

EDIT: And reptiles can have extremely long fangs... as long as they fold like most every pit viper species :twisted:


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30 Oct 2009, 2:36 pm

My parents, being rigid Aspies themselves, do not believe in getting treatment or special help just because a kid is miserable, friendless and unable to cope.



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30 Oct 2009, 2:55 pm

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:lol: oh, so a combo of both things i thought? hmm. that must have been odd. um, did it help at all?
you do sound like you were a fun kid. :P :lol:


I was being ironic with the fun kid reference. You took what I said literally. Aha! :)

I'm off to work...


actually, no i didnt! you took what I said literally....the joke's on you!


Aha! Aha!- I actually considered that after a while. :lol:


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30 Oct 2009, 3:11 pm

In hindsight I'm pretty sure I received special treatment because I was allowed to do things other kids were not allowed to do, such as tutor other kids starting in second grade and not being forced to participate in group activities. I also got in fights and was never punished; I would be sent to the principle's office in grade school to talk (at least once a week), but only because my teachers didn't know what to do with me. I wasn't diagnosed as a child, attended a very poor school and was raised with one parent who never cared about my schoolwork. These factors contributed to a great deal of frustration amongst my teachers (and me!), who always seemed exasperated with me and thus mostly ignored my odd behavior. My intelligence saved me though. I often wonder what would have happened to me if I never excelled in school.


By the way, this is my first post. Its quite nice to read comments that reflect my experiences.



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30 Oct 2009, 5:44 pm

I never really had any special treatments until like when the teachers discovered there was something wrong with me in yr2 in skool...
I then I would basically be the only one in the school who had a speech and language therpist session (known as special time) in school for my behaviour difficultites and social awkardness. I had it every science lesson. It seemed like a special treatment to me. I had so many doctor appointments and stuff... and was transferred to another school where i was treated so much better, its only now I seemed to have realised now i was treated differently from an ordinary kid would of been.
The teachers thought i was intelligent enough to take a mainstream course in college. :lol:


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