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Do you ever wish you lived alone?
Yes, all the time 65%  65%  [ 37 ]
No, I rather be stuck with whoever :) 7%  7%  [ 4 ]
Sometimes? 28%  28%  [ 16 ]
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27 Nov 2009, 3:10 am

I often fantasize about it....very frequently, in fact...



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27 Nov 2009, 3:31 am

Married 3 times, 3 other long term commitments, dozens and dozens of shorter term relationships. I finally realized (before diagnosis) that there are far worse things than being alone - like sharing living space with other humans.

I do live alone by choice and cannot imagine being content any other way.

I personally cannot be responsible for the emotional well being of another person.

I can barely maintain my own sanity, without upholding that of another.

Humans are great for sex and sometimes as friends. They (or I ) suck for long term intimate companionship.

Hooray for those whose experiences may vary.



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27 Nov 2009, 4:07 am

I am currently renting a room but my landlady is not around most of the time, but Id like to buy my own house with a decent yard when I finish college.I like the idea of having my own house and doing whatever I please without worrying about annoying others.I will then also be able to place stuff where I please, fly whatever flag I choose to fly, and play musical instruments without making others irritated by my music.


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27 Nov 2009, 8:06 am

Don't people with an ASD live alone no matter who's around them?



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27 Nov 2009, 11:19 am

At the monment i live with my parents but i would prefer to live on me own as i would have more personal space and wouldn't have to listen to my parents arguing.



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27 Nov 2009, 12:14 pm

Danielismyname wrote:
Don't people with an ASD live alone no matter who's around them?


Not all the time, there's a couple of members that I know of that lives with their husbands/wifes... Some of them live with their parents still even after the age of 18 onwards... So it just depends really on how they live their lifestyle :)

I live with my parents still.... yet im still considering getting a place of my own, the thing is that I also want to avoid is the bills, etc.


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27 Nov 2009, 12:43 pm

I actually do live alone and have for many years. I prefer it this way. I never, ever think about giving that up. I have my own apartment that is 30% of my income. all utilities except for phone, cable, and Internet is paid. my income is disability. That is not much. But I get by. I'm actually able to pay my own bills and buy my own food. On top of having (AS) I also have the physical disability. And in a wheelchair. but I still get by, very good. And I'm proud of myself for that.


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27 Nov 2009, 1:43 pm

Oh, yes. It's always been my dream to live on Solaria, on a HUGE estate, with no other human being, and only robots seeing to the housework and everything. I guess you could say I'd be happy as a hermit.



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27 Nov 2009, 3:01 pm

:lol: just to have robots.... I would wish they did actually invent that so that I don't have to do the chores, now theres a thing, water and electricity do not mix! :( now that really sucks...

Unless they could just do waterproof robots :) that would cheer me up alot :D


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27 Nov 2009, 6:21 pm

superboyian wrote:
Unless they could just do waterproof robots :) that would cheer me up alot :D


Kryten from Red Dwarf springs to mind.



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27 Nov 2009, 6:31 pm

EnglishInvader wrote:
superboyian wrote:
Unless they could just do waterproof robots :) that would cheer me up alot :D


Kryten from Red Dwarf springs to mind.


:lol: perfect, they should make more of those :) I love watching that :P
Maybe tons of Kryton should make my own place feel like home, but it would kinda be freaky at the same time.


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28 Nov 2009, 12:43 am

that it would.

I live with my family but i would like my own place, just for peace and quiet mainly.



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28 Nov 2009, 6:17 am

That was one of the main reasons I wanted to live alone...


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28 Nov 2009, 10:56 am

i have always lived alone. even when i was a child and resided in the same house as my parents...i lived alone.

now i live alone in a house by myself in bushland, and there are no neighbors, and i never hear machinery or cars or voices where i live.
i only hear the sounds of birds and insects, and i hear the breeze rustle up the trees, and i am very content.

i still live alone, but do it in isolation and solitude now.

by "alone", i mean "without human company" and not "without any living company".
if there was no other life on earth but me, i would not like it to an extreme extent. i would wilt to nothing rapidly and lose my will to live.



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28 Nov 2009, 11:06 am

b9 wrote:
i have always lived alone. even when i was a child and resided in the same house as my parents...i lived alone.

now i live alone in a house by myself in bushland, and there are no neighbors, and i never hear machinery or cars or voices where i live.
i only hear the sounds of birds and insects, and i hear the breeze rustle up the trees, and i am very content.

i still live alone, but do it in isolation and solitude now.

by "alone", i mean "without human company" and not "without any living company".
if there was no other life on earth but me, i would not like it to an extreme extent. i would wilt to nothing rapidly and lose my will to live.


It would of drove me mad if it was just me on earth... i would think it was a cool thing at first but then it would of drove me mad because then I would have nothing to do and nobody would be on the internet as its just me on earth :lol:
But living your lifestyle, it would make me happier. :) living happily ever after, living by the beach :)


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28 Nov 2009, 12:37 pm

superboyian wrote:
b9 wrote:
i.... etc


It would of drove me mad if it was just me on earth... i would think it was a cool thing at first but then it would of drove me mad because then I would have nothing to do and nobody would be on the internet as its just me on earth

there would be no reason to think or be if i was the only living thing in the solar system.
my consciousness of life would seem like a mistake, and i would believe i was deluded and i would withdraw into a lassitude of non commitment to what i was seeing, and i would let myself die.
if there was even one little bird alive in the world with me, i would live for as long as it did.
it is a seriously eerie thought to imagine being a (miraculously generated) life placed in a universe where life does not exist.
the irreconcilable futility of my life would be the reason i wish to return to the unconscious and unassembled elements that comprise my fabric (die that is).


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But living your lifestyle, it would make me happier. :) living happily ever after, living by the beach :)

i do not live near a beach. i live about 1,000 ft above sea level, and my house is about 9 miles from a beach.
i do not like beaches that much.
i prefer forests ("bushland" as we call it).