mgran wrote:
In my dreams there are often people, whom I either know in person or by reputation. But although I recognise them in my dreams (whether it's my husband or Michael Angelo) they are rarely clearly defined. I hardly ever see a face in my dreams.
The only exception to this is when I dream about my son. Him I see clearly and vividly. Everyone else is a shape.
For example, I dreamt of my husband walking along a beach, with a white horse walking beside him. The water was very clearly defined in the dream, the way it washed over my husband's feet, the way his feet sank in the sand. The white horse was very clear, the way she let her head droop over my husband's shoulder. I could even see her eyelashes. But I couldn't see my husband's face.
Of course, that could be because he's dead. But it's so rare for me to see a human face in my dreams that when I do it's a major surprise.
In my case, nothing in my dreams is "clearly defined", whether it be humans or other things. I don't think there is a difference between one and the other, I simply don't dream these details. In fact, that is one way I can tell I have a dream. I remember a few dreams where I was desperate to check an email, but I couldn't read the letters. So I realized it was a dream. And then I decided that if only I can force my eyes to read these letters on the screen, it will stop being a dream and I will know what the email said in a real life. But no matter how hard I try I can't.
However, on a different note, when I am awake and try to imagine something, I can't imagine details either. I only know a "sense" of things. There is a "sense" of this person or that, and there is a "sense" of different geographical locations. Like even if I try to visualize my room when I am not there, I can't safely say what color is the floor. But I have a "sense" of the room so I will recognize it when I am there. The same with people.