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ljbouchard
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15 Mar 2006, 6:39 pm

SC,

Lets see, first you state the terms for your return to a site in which you are free to come and go from (like anyone really cares about your terms because you cannot enforce them unless the other person violates a site rule). Then you are rude to those who disagree with you or tell you that respect it earned, not given.

If I missed anything, please tell me.

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15 Mar 2006, 7:23 pm

That's fair enough. Welcome back!


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15 Mar 2006, 7:43 pm

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You and I have a bit of history mam, remember your insults to me in chat? All over A.F.F who has cuased nothing but problems for me.

Listen, I am not going to make practice of even debating people who just try to put me down. There are others who with htere points of view have disagreed with me, yet the constructive debate and intelectual process existed without the inciting of conflict as aspen did and the other few individuals. From post to post..

I just want to talk, from my entry on this board I was instigated, facts are facts..

Aspen and the few others whom have really and obviously tried to cuase problems with me are seen for what they are. As far as social status, I do not implore to create sides, or have others I know come here to defend me in debates. However when insulted and put down as I was, that's when I make a stand.

If the few don't like it becuase they know of themselves in there minds there own intents, then so be it. It's anew as I say, no need for more.

While I have recieved chats in agreement and none otherwise, it is not about winning, but your post mam is of clear bias given history and a tactic simply given the fact of our history and you calling me names in chat.

Yeah a mother..


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First of all, I dropped that long time ago and chose to ignore you and forget you, so all I see is you continuing it.... do you want to be seen as mature? Maybe you should just drop your attitude and people would respect you more. And yes that is only my opinion, but I've moved on, you haven't, guess who's all the more better for it? Me because I am tired of you accusing everyone else of causing you problems when you cause enough of your own, it's time to accept the blame for your own problems instead of blaming others. Sorry if you don't like that Nathan.

Also, I'm not a ma'am, that is just insulting honestly, ma'am would be more suited for my mother, not in a disrespectful way by you thanks. Secondly, I'm a damn good mother to my sons, so insulting me as a mother is just ignorance on your part. Now have a nice day Nathan, your true colors are showing through.



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15 Mar 2006, 8:25 pm

SC, if you don't like the way you're being treated here then why do you come here? You can't demand respect from people, you have to earn it.



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15 Mar 2006, 8:38 pm

More then a few back ends reside here...

I do not demand anything, people usually define me incorrectly. Instead of hospitality still people are vengeful and quite frankly not friendly in the least bit..

Be seen for your own words in reply..

Mods, you seem to set the examples of what should not be.

Why do you have to be so unfriendly, confrontational and vindictive?

To those that reply with spite, why so? Do you want problems, do you want people to feel not welcome here?

It takes a few to ruin the whole, likely some just like causing problems and making others feel bad.

highly unprofessional.

I AM TIRED OF BEING MADE OUT TO BE SOMETHING AND SOMEONE I AM NOT FOR OTHERS ANGERS WHEN ALL I DO IS TRY TO HELP BUT AM ATTACKED CONSTANTLY LIKE THIS.

I will not be defined as anything liek some that are now doing so especially when greeted on this forum the way I was.

Problem makers, I am not one.

How DARE some of you.



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15 Mar 2006, 8:45 pm

Anyways, thanks to those that chatted to me and welcomed me back, those that have been trying to cuase problems with me for some time, please just stop it.

I come here to talk, as unlike some of you I do not have such opportunities regularly to do so in real life.

Still I am willing to forgive and forget dispite the idiocies, inhospitality and frank disurbances others wish to cuase.



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15 Mar 2006, 8:57 pm

sc

I think You have gone about this all wrong way. If You do not what to debate something with some one then just simply state it and let it go then. I do not know what happened in the past with You at this site. But if You have been gone for whatever time some people are not going to remember what happened a while back. You may need to take that into consideration.


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15 Mar 2006, 8:58 pm

Maybe if you changed your attitude, people won't so hostile torwards you. You re introduced yourself in a very hostile way, one that was completely unnescary. I am not insulting you, I am just telling you like it is. just because Im a mod doesn't mean i have to sugar coat things. Your post was very demanding, you demanded that everyone treat you a certain way, when this is a public and everyone has a right to free speech.


Just try to relax, and enjoy everyone's company instead of looking for reasons to be hostile and defensive.



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15 Mar 2006, 9:08 pm

I was not hostile, I am not hostile and I am frustrated when I am picked at as I was. This post was intended to resolve and not mention names. However still it developes into this...

I want to talk and not conflict or be called names, I can do the same thing in return but why the stress?

Ganging up on me is a mistake, I have no goals with making large arguements rather for the betterment of communication while I am here.

Still I am made out to something I am not, you can choose to now view it differently by my saying it.

I do not demand anything it comes from a point of frustration.

if persons do not know what we are talking about and choosing to conflict with me, then there is no reason as to why they are in this conversation when they are not the issue.

I am not attacking this site, I like this site and have defended it against false claims previously.



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15 Mar 2006, 9:11 pm

To me, the issue at hand quite simple. If you like it here, you can stay. If you don't like it, f**k off. But whatever you choose to do don't hang around here acting like you're so oppressed and that your suffering is without parallel. Because it is extremely irritating to everyone else.



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15 Mar 2006, 9:12 pm

Yep another shows it well..

I suppose some are so quick to make battles its how they enjoy themselves.

You are defining me as things I am not, why continue with it.. Still people will make this topic into something so great and devestating it must be something to just do...



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15 Mar 2006, 9:15 pm

SC, Looks to me that when you came back you have once again decided to hand yourself a gun for a foot shooting party.


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15 Mar 2006, 9:20 pm

Well I did not want to, I actually wanted ot establish that I am not here ot make arguements but it is VERY frustrating.

I do not hate people, but they keep speaking things that are not of my intention, respect is sort of not like how I was intiialy greated here. I have since learned that the original topic is so universally different then the ideas of others that no wonder I was called psychotic..

How insulting..



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15 Mar 2006, 9:25 pm

It seems this thread is not going in a very positive direction. SC, I think it's time you let go of whatever hostility you have torwards other members, you'll feel better about yourself. In the meantime I am going to have to lock this thread since it's turned into a big flame war.