Salespeople at the Mall
The truth is they are most likely hounded by their managers to approach potential customers and they could care less whether they could help you or not. I say "just browsing" and go on my way. There's a particular chain grocery store I go to because it's usually not as crowded and they have the kind of coffee I like. No matter which location I go to, as soon as I walk in the door I've got 3 or 4 employees with plastered grins on their faces rushing up to say "Welcome to ------". I also think the employee who answers the phone with "Good afternoon-Thank you for calling ------,This is -----,How may I help you?" are doing so only because they are told to.
Oh, of course this is true but it doesn't make me any less irritated.
That's because they're told that and how to do it.
On another note, I've occasions where a cellphone salesperson would come up to me and asked if I've a phone, and what brand it was. Then this person would ask me if I would like to buy a " better phone " * whatever that means? * to me all phones are only good when they do one thing, call people.
HATE. I put on the meanest face I have( AKA Resting B*tch Face) and they still HAVE to say something to me. One even commented on my hair looking not so good, she was pushing flat irons.
I should really add that I used to work one of these jobs, a holiday pushing candy but I did my best not to be abrasive and I never approached anyone unless the manger was around.
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I hate this too and would avoid the shops where I know people will pounce on me. I think electronic or clothes shops are the worse. I try not to look or speak to anyone and will now only shop where I know I'll be left alone until I want help.
I thank god for internet shopping - especially amazon - as that means I can get what I want cheaply and without having to leave home
Damn, I hate that. I wish they'd just leave me alone!! !! I'm not going to steal anything, I'm not going to bother anyone, and if I need help I'll ASK!
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I was at Gamestop or something a few days ago. I was standing by the counter and the person wasn't there (I asked for a kinda obscure children's game and he had to find it). Apparently, the employees have pieces of paper taped to their desks behind the counter that actually say that, right down to the ----- to fill in your name.
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I hate this too and would avoid the shops where I know people will pounce on me. I think electronic or clothes shops are the worse. I try not to look or speak to anyone and will now only shop where I know I'll be left alone until I want help.
I thank god for internet shopping - especially amazon - as that means I can get what I want cheaply and without having to leave home
I'd rather do internet shopping myself! But sometimes I find it calming just to wander around a store. If I notice that no other customers are in there though I never want to go in. I just KNOW the salespeople will immediately jump on me.
Even with internet shopping some sites are so vexing. 2 weeks I tried to by a computer (a very inexpensive one). They had my name address and credit card details so all that any shop would need, but was told I had to let them see my passport as proof of identity! That was too frustrating and I ended up spending 3x the amount getting myself a macbook.
Perversely, I'll sometimes go to the most 'offensive' shop just to remind myself of the agony of shopping. And I feel sorry for the shop workers - I recon they're often underpaid!
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I've worked in retail quite a bit, and there is one ulterior motive behind the approaches a lot of people don't realize.
Theft prevention!
It's a proven fact that simply making the staff's presence known reduces theft. Shoplifting is a HUGE problem in retail. Many companies train their employees to approach every customer, and ask if they need help. Customers who are approached are less likely to steal anything, even if the employee is told, "No thank you, I'm just looking."
Often the customer doesn't know where to find what they are looking for. Often they are on a "mission" to get the one thing they came in for, and get out. When you act as if you are annoyed, they move on looking for customers that do want help. So when you get to the register and there's no one there, that's why. They're helping people who wanted the help, and very likely following them to the register with the item they want to purchase.
There are some companies that take it to extremes though. I used to work for Sears, and I can tell you we got complaints from customers all the time about being approached eight to twelve times by the time they'd made it my department. This is because Sears, at the time I worked there, had an idiotic policy that REQUIRED every employee (even if they weren't in sales) to approach every customer. And if we didn't, and a manager noticed it, we were chastised and even disciplined for it. Add to that that the sales people made their living on commissions, and there was a virtual war on the floor for the sales force to get to customers before anyone else did. It was stupid, and did nothing but promote some really childish behavior, and did not go unnoticed by many of the customers.
There is the other extreme too though. Ever been in a store where none of the employees EVER make eye contact, and actually AVOID YOU instead? Let me tell you, when you can't find what you're looking for, that, to me, is even MORE annoying!
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not fair! I've worked at a place before where you had to approach literally every person who came in the store and the manager would be watching over us like a hawk to make sure we did. we knew the majority of people just wanted to look around and if they did need help would ask for it or stand there looking abit lost- but we had no choice. The fact that i knew from experience how irritating it is for people made it pretty crappy to have to do so i try to be polite to such people now. A simple 'I'm good thanks' or 'just having a look' with a smile will usually do and really isnt too much to ask:/
and also "Good afternoon-Thank you for calling ------,This is -----,How may I help you?" - of course theyre told to answer the phone like that. Lots of businesses or companies dealing with the public have a standard phone answering protocols
&& MrXxx is correct
OneStep: Yeah, you're right, but it can be JUST as annoying to be forced to do it. I hated it, because it forced me to work outside my normal sense of what I'm all about. It's an Aspie thing. Living up to those standards of behavior over time, stressed me to the point of becoming sick.
When you don't want to be approached, you don't want to be approached. I don't like it a lot either, but then it also annoys me when I want help but can't find it.
Man! Can't we ever just be happy? ![]()
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