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Do you cope by self-hypnosis?
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01 Aug 2016, 6:53 am

Hmm sometimes I can put myself in a trance type thing and then I can focus better on one thing. It means I kinda block out other things though. Also I feel less pain but I'm not sure if that counts.



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01 Aug 2016, 6:58 am

Wow, that's amazing, Auntblabby. I use some self-hypnosis techniques. There's one where you imagine feelings that you want to have, like calm and confidence. It works sort of like how I get involved in a good book and start to feel things based on what I'm reading. Saying, imagine that, works better than saying, I feel so relaxed right now. I can't say anything I don't actually believe, because that just takes me right out of the experience.

Mindfulness techniques help with anxiety also. I'm analytical, and the downside to that is that I tend to try to figure out why I'm feeling the way I'm feeling. This really doesn't work for generalized anxiety disorder because it can actually create worries. Instead, I'm learning to focus on the sensations, rather than the thoughts, and imagining myself slowly relaxing. The body scan and stretches also help change my focus, and also the awareness that feelings are often based on the past or the future, not the present. Saying, this is old stuff, I'm not worried right now, that helps too, before I can invent something to worry about. The mind is a strange place, LOL.



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01 Aug 2016, 7:38 am

auntblabby wrote:
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^^^welcome to WP, LB :)
good to know some people here have talents in this regard. :star:

Thank you for the welcome :) I became a hypnotherapist before I was diagnosed with Asperger's, and it's amazing how much "stuff" just clunked into place about how I seemed to be unable to be hypnotised myself. It's just about getting the words right for the clients, and us as Aspies allowing ourselves to do something that's really beneficial for us.

i'm sure if I had some NO2 assisting me or good pain meds, it might work better, but then again I also have issue with being both relaxed AND alert simultaneously. if I could do this, i'd like hypnotic past-life regression.


The thing to do with being relaxed and alert is telling yourself instead that it's focus. When you focus your attention alters to that you can relax. Also, in reaching that state of focus, you can tense and hold it until you MUST release the tensed muscles. Your brain gives a lovely little sigh each time that happens, and lets you relax.


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01 Aug 2016, 7:38 am

Starfoxx wrote:
Hmm sometimes I can put myself in a trance type thing and then I can focus better on one thing. It means I kinda block out other things though. Also I feel less pain but I'm not sure if that counts.


It all counts. Hypnosis/trance is whatever you decide works for you.


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01 Aug 2016, 5:05 pm

I guess i'm not great at focus. story of my life. the few times I've gotten really focused I had difficulty changing focus to something else. mebbe this is strictly for the high-functioning ones. :scratch:



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01 Aug 2016, 8:36 pm

auntblabby wrote:
I guess i'm not great at focus. story of my life. the few times I've gotten really focused I had difficulty changing focus to something else. mebbe this is strictly for the high-functioning ones. :scratch:


I'm sure you have that in common with lots of people with ADHD.



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01 Aug 2016, 8:38 pm

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I guess i'm not great at focus. story of my life. the few times I've gotten really focused I had difficulty changing focus to something else. mebbe this is strictly for the high-functioning ones. :scratch:


I'm sure you have that in common with lots of people with ADHD.

it feels like my steering and transmission are sticky. :nerdy:



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01 Aug 2016, 8:43 pm

Good analogy. I've never heard that before.



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01 Aug 2016, 8:44 pm

i suspect your steering and transmission are far freer [better lubricated] than mine.



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01 Aug 2016, 11:29 pm

I have always had a severe sleep disorder, and tried hypnotherapy once, back in the day where I was still fighting taking medications. It didn't seem to do much for the sleep disorder, as apparently this is almost impossible to treat as they don't know what causes it or what to do about it, but it was interesting for itself and I could see how it could be useful for other, less tricky areas. Are online sources of this information viable? I wouldn't mind looking into it again.
Auntblabby - is it possible you couldn't be hypnotised because you doing "allow" it? That's what the therapist told me - that it was impossible to hypnotise someone who did not want to be, or was not going along with the process. Apparently anxiety and so on can also create a barrier to it working.


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01 Aug 2016, 11:59 pm

C2V wrote:
I have always had a severe sleep disorder, and tried hypnotherapy once, back in the day where I was still fighting taking medications. It didn't seem to do much for the sleep disorder, as apparently this is almost impossible to treat as they don't know what causes it or what to do about it, but it was interesting for itself and I could see how it could be useful for other, less tricky areas. Are online sources of this information viable? I wouldn't mind looking into it again.
Auntblabby - is it possible you couldn't be hypnotised because you doing "allow" it? That's what the therapist told me - that it was impossible to hypnotise someone who did not want to be, or was not going along with the process. Apparently anxiety and so on can also create a barrier to it working.

it was later explained to me that it requires the ability to be both relaxed yet alert. with pain issues, I could not be relaxed. that is why they said if I was medicated :hic: that I likely would have a much easier time with it. I definitely wished that it woulda worked because I really want to explore my past lifetimes.



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02 Aug 2016, 12:00 am

it would be cool if some scientist studied what percentage of aspies versus NTs had trouble with hypnosis. :idea:



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02 Aug 2016, 5:33 pm

auntblabby wrote:
DataB4 wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
I guess i'm not great at focus. story of my life. the few times I've gotten really focused I had difficulty changing focus to something else. mebbe this is strictly for the high-functioning ones. :scratch:


I'm sure you have that in common with lots of people with ADHD.

it feels like my steering and transmission are sticky. :nerdy:

That's an analogy a skilfull hypnotherapist could work through with you. :)


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02 Aug 2016, 5:58 pm

I know the standard "picture yourself at the beach, soak in all the heat and seabreeze etc." never worked for me, the visualization exercises I just couldn't follow. on some occasions [when my back wasn't ouching me] I just eventually got tired and fell asleep and remembered nothing.