If you could be a neurotypical would you?

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28 Jul 2010, 5:23 pm

Greatful for everybodies opinions. :D This is of course a totaly hypothetical question since such a technology does not exist.

i've though about it a bit and I have to say that given there was some hypothetical (and probably impossible) whatsit that would alow me to be a neurotypical i'd be greatly tempted by my curiosity to try it out but i'm still unsure if I would. I do wonder if neurotypicals would choose to become apsies.



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28 Jul 2010, 5:36 pm

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This is just the 'cure' debate in a different frame.

You are who you are because you were born with a different lens through which you experience the world. As you grow and develop, EVERYTHING you see, touch, think, hear or experience in any way is filtered through that slightly warped lens, which all contributes to creating your personality.

You don't HAVE Asperger Syndrome - you ARE a creation made of Asperger Syndrome.

If the neural pathways that have formed your perceptions of the world were to suddenly disappear, you wouldn't be normal, you'd be LOST. If you think you live on a different planet NOW, after learning to navigate here for years with faulty radar, you'd suddenly find yourself with no radar at all, because even socially confident neurotypicals aren't born socially confident and don't become that way overnight.

Its just a moot question. A 'cure' wouldn't be a 'cure', it would ultimately be a solution worse than the problem.


Exactly -- I've learned to live a certain way and found happiness and sadness in it. If I were to be changed so fundamentally as to become NT, I'd have to learn everything again, differently. Cue failure, confusion, and nervous breakdown.



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28 Jul 2010, 6:51 pm

Simply put, if I didn't have AS, then I wouldn't be me. To expand on the point that Willard made, we would be so fundamentally different from what we are now if we no longer had any signs of AS. Our personalities, interests and life experiences would be so different, we wouldn't really be the same person. So I don't really know how to answer this question. :?


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28 Jul 2010, 7:02 pm

Why would I want to bcome normal.. thats no fun.


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28 Jul 2010, 7:04 pm

If that would mean having less physical ailments, less mental ailments, being more independent and being able to take care of myself completely without being severely stressed after every socialisation - then hell yes! I don't care about my "identity", "personality", etc - NT or Aspie, as long as it would be less pain, tension, stress and anxiety in my life.



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28 Jul 2010, 7:23 pm

I'm not sure. I would really love to be able to interact with people more easily and in a way that other people don't think is completely awkward and strange. But there are a lot of things that I like about myself, and I would be afraid that becoming neurotypical might eliminate or change some of those things about me. I wouldn't want to become a completely different person. So I don't really know.


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28 Jul 2010, 7:28 pm

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These are always fascinating. Mostly people are worried about losing their interests.

My question; if you became NT, why would you lose your interest? Is that part of the diagnosis?

People with AS like the things they like for different reasons, though. So if you become NT you won't be interested in your interests for the same reasons anymore; you will indulge in them more sluggishly and might lose much aesthetic judgment. So it's very possible to lose entire sets of interests with a switch to NTness.



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28 Jul 2010, 8:03 pm

No way!

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28 Jul 2010, 10:26 pm

Not interested, I'm fine with myself the way I am.



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28 Jul 2010, 10:33 pm

How can one possibly answer this question correctly? We don't know what it's like to be NT.


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29 Jul 2010, 12:19 am

For me being an aspie means to be always lonely but hate being around people. I could careless about the lack of eye contact or the ability to understand social cues. What I want to do is be able to touch someone without feeling like I am going to die. I would have to say hell yes I would become an NT. :idea:


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29 Jul 2010, 3:22 am

Willard wrote:
If the neural pathways that have formed your perceptions of the world were to suddenly disappear, you wouldn't be normal, you'd be LOST. If you think you live on a different planet NOW, after learning to navigate here for years with faulty radar, you'd suddenly find yourself with no radar at all, because even socially confident neurotypicals aren't born socially confident and don't become that way overnight.


Interesting point. Any "cure" would likely require a couple of decades of social readjustment...consuming one's life to a point of leaving them truly empty.



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29 Jul 2010, 11:27 am

If we're really going to do science fiction, I'd like to be a grizzly bear in Yellowstone National Forest for a week! I'm top predator. No one's going to get me. And if I happen to be wandering off property, one of the rangers will shoot me with a tranq gun and haul me back.

Now, that would be a week's vacation! That would be an entirely different experience for a week.



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29 Jul 2010, 11:36 am

And remember, we definitely have some strengths. A NT person is likely to just start a restaurant and expect it to 'naturally' work out (because they're used to things naturally 'working out'). Whereas we're likely to think through the issues, for example, figuring out the three key things we need to hit, figuring how to hit them, a schedule in which we know that we have hit them, a game plan to take it to the next level, etc. This is a generalization, but I think there's a lot of truth to it.



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29 Jul 2010, 12:29 pm

MrDiamondMind wrote:
. . . might lose much aesthetic judgment. . .
With people, too, it often seems as though I feel things more deeply, and with people I like, appreciate them more, and the little things about them, too.



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29 Apr 2011, 12:06 pm

Yes, I bloody would!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !!


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