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Dnuos
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07 Aug 2010, 12:12 am

Or this is Aspie vs. NT?

Physically - I don't recall really getting into much physical fights. The most common physical "fight" was a typical football tackling drill or something, so not really a qualified "fight". I can recall a few times getting in a few light fights, but they didn't really go anywhere. Nor do I remember how they even ended.

Verbally - I can't think of what to say in social situations as fast as NT's can, not even putting the faulty eye contact into play. I've ended up losing so many of these that eventually I just gave up. Unless it's something I've planned out multiple times, I don't really risk it.

I've gone through phases. All in all, I haven't really been motivated to fight. At least lately, (maybe it's the depression) fighting's the last thing I'd want to do. These days I'm more like a hippie, I guess. Peace to everyone, and all that cheesy stuff. Having been on the football team for five years, I don't doubt I could possibly win a fight. But I really... just don't care.



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07 Aug 2010, 12:15 am

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My special interest is better than your special interest!


:lol:


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07 Aug 2010, 12:21 am

I assumed it was Aspie vs. Aspie...



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07 Aug 2010, 12:26 am

Minda loves his aspie on aspie fight.


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07 Aug 2010, 1:19 pm

a:"I'm right/polight and you're not!"
b:"No, I'm right/polight and you're not! (quotes and examples here)"
a:"I was generalising."
b:"Yeah right!"

It's like a 'wisdom' debate with no audience. :) Add a few moments where someone studders or goes mind blank, and you can note it in the message board or verbal combat section.



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07 Aug 2010, 2:27 pm

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What Is An Aspie Fight Like?


Like a school chess club given guns and crystal meth



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07 Aug 2010, 2:42 pm

A Grand-scale punch out!


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07 Aug 2010, 2:45 pm

poopylungstuffing wrote:
TRYING TO FORCE ME TO MAKE EYE CONTACT AND ASKING ME NERVE JANGLING QUESTIONS EVERY FIVE MINUTES!! !! (she was the overly physical type aspie with an intense STARE 8O as opposed to my no eye contact and dislike of unfamiliar and unexpected physical contact...My blowups at her would basically completely bounce off of her...and totally mess with me....


I have an Aspie friend like that. I try to be patient and calm with him though. Every thing he says seems intense, like he's straining to say it and over thinking it.

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I had with one very ASish fellow who had worked for years in a commercial screen printing facility and yet would show up to my bi-monthly screen printing workshop to heckle me for my primitive technique..for lack of anything better to do..


Now thats the kind of aspie i can't stand. the "think they know it all". As oppsed to the "really does know it all" aspie who we should all learn from.



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07 Aug 2010, 6:24 pm

Midna wrote:
Like for an argument. I don't think I ever been an Aspie fight, I don't think I want to be one, especially if I'm the one being ridiculed.


This forum. I have seen lot of drama here lately. That's an aspie fight. Even check out the PPR board.



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07 Aug 2010, 7:24 pm

Most of the Aspies that I know, when in a disagreement, engage in avoidance much rather than agression.

This is true for the couple of situations where I have had disagreements with friends who have Aspergers. In both cases, the avoidance went along for a long time.



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08 Aug 2010, 5:10 pm

I don't like fighting as a rule, or any sort of confrontation. To be honest, I rarely go beyond the stage of using 'your mum' jokes, and even then it's usually light hearted.

I'd say, as a general rule, an aspie fight is very autistic.

Laz wrote:
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What Is An Aspie Fight Like?


Like a school chess club given guns and crystal meth


LOL! Where would they get the crystal meth from?


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