What are the benefits and cons of being diagnosed?
Pros:
1. You are eligible for support for your problems
2. You can explain your 'odd behaviour' to people so they don't misunderstand you
3. You can begin to accept yourself and gain self-esteem
Cons:
1. You know you have a disability and will never be 'normal' (whatever that is)
2. It is usually expensive
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StuartN wrote:
I am sure anyone can find individual anecdotes that link a specific condition with having children removed and taken into care. However, these are anecdotes, they are not representative of all cases of the condition. In addition, there are compound factors in every one of these ASD anecdotes, where other conditions more relevant to child welfare were also present. Only a copy of the court records would adequately show which conditions were relevant to the decision to take children into care, or award custody to another party.
The mere fact that it happens at all is information people ought to know about. You do no one any favors by making out that it's not a significant concern. I'll give people the information and let them decide for themselves. There is a case written up by a news organization, below.
Anyone who doesn't realize that a psych diagnosis can be marginalizing, and that marginalization can cause things to happen to you "that aren't supposed to happen," has led an overly-lucky life.
Here's one written up by a news organization:
http://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales ... _page.html
Quote:
THE grandfather of a baby taken into care immediately after he was born is accusing social services of discriminating against his daughter because she has a form of autism.
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The grandfather, who lives in South Wales but cannot be identified for legal reasons, said, “Within hours of the baby being born two weeks ago, social workers arrived at the hospital and served papers on my daughter saying they would be applying for an interim care order. She was beside herself.
“Two weeks before what should have been the happiest day of her life, we as a family attended a case conference where Monmouthshire County Council placed the unborn baby on an ‘at risk’ register. Their argument was that because she has Asperger’s Syndrome, she is at risk of getting post-natal depression, and that there would therefore be the likelihood of her neglecting the baby.
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The grandfather, who lives in South Wales but cannot be identified for legal reasons, said, “Within hours of the baby being born two weeks ago, social workers arrived at the hospital and served papers on my daughter saying they would be applying for an interim care order. She was beside herself.
“Two weeks before what should have been the happiest day of her life, we as a family attended a case conference where Monmouthshire County Council placed the unborn baby on an ‘at risk’ register. Their argument was that because she has Asperger’s Syndrome, she is at risk of getting post-natal depression, and that there would therefore be the likelihood of her neglecting the baby.
Their basis of their taking the child makes no sense, but it obviously didn't have to.
I'm not saying these cases are common, or that they alone should persuade someone away from a diagnosis. But they have happened, and it's important to know about^* -- and I don't buy "well, those people must've been deserving in some way; the state would never wrong a 'normal aspie' like that."
^* And there is important information in that thread, such as that Tony Attwood will be of no help if that happens to you. I think many people would be shocked to know that.
On some level, I think it's beneficial just to know, for the sake of personal identity. There's also a sense of community that comes with it. The only negative I see is it can become an excuse if you let it. How it affects your life, positive or negative, is ultimately up to you.
Pseudeos wrote:
Pros:
1. You are eligible for support for your problems
2. You can explain your 'odd behaviour' to people so they don't misunderstand you
3. You can begin to accept yourself and gain self-esteem
Cons:
1. You know you have a disability and will never be 'normal' (whatever that is)
2. It is usually expensive
1. You are eligible for support for your problems
2. You can explain your 'odd behaviour' to people so they don't misunderstand you
3. You can begin to accept yourself and gain self-esteem
Cons:
1. You know you have a disability and will never be 'normal' (whatever that is)
2. It is usually expensive
Expensive? Now that is one of my worst fears for this diagnosis thing, I really don't want to be a bother to my parents
but then again getting support is okay i guess, what kind of support do they give? Or are you just saying medication as support.
Meliev wrote:
Expensive? Now that is one of my worst fears for this diagnosis thing, I really don't want to be a bother to my parents but then again getting support is okay i guess, what kind of support do they give? Or are you just saying medication as support.
If you are still in the education system, then you may be able to get assessed by an educational psychology service without any significant charge. People have discussed private assessments in many threads and give costs in the range of about $400 to $1,200.
Drugs are not the only support - obviously some people have issues like depression, ADD, OCD and anxiety that can be helped with drugs, but there is no specific drug treatment for Asperger's or autism.
Supports include specific educational, occupational and social interventions that help people learn methods of coping with any difficulties they have. I assume that you are posting here because you have noticed some difficulties or differences you have that most people do not - there might be therapies that help with those. Where they affect school, they might qualify for additional help and for concessions in academic assessment. Understanding issues like sensory integration can help you identify places and times where you have unpleasant experiences.
Meliev wrote:
Expensive? Now that is one of my worst fears for this diagnosis thing, I really don't want to be a bother to my parents
but then again getting support is okay i guess, what kind of support do they give? Or are you just saying medication as support.
but then again getting support is okay i guess, what kind of support do they give? Or are you just saying medication as support.
There is no medication designed to help people with ASDs unless they have anxiety, depression, anger problems, etc. However, you can get social skills training, cognitive behavioural therapy, sensory integration therapy, and you can join a support group for people with AS. It depends on your personal abilities and needs.
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