RainingRoses wrote:
RainingRoses wrote:
Would you hire the guy or girl that picked on you mercilessly in junior high???
You guys are taking my original question a bit too literally. (My fault.) I'm just assuming -- maybe not fairly -- that a guy who became president of his fraternity and played on three varsity sports probably made the life of someone like me or you pretty miserable at some point. I'm not suggesting that someone specific who bullied me in junior high has now come to me for a job. My point is that this guy probably bullied one of the 41,313 (as of 7:05 EST) of you. And that pisses me off. No, probably not enough not to hire him. But still...
To answer a couple of questions hanging out there: yes, I have the "power" (for lack of a better word) to fire these people; and insubordination is not necessary -- if you're in the U.S., then it's very likely that you work "at will" meaning that you can be fired for no reason at all.
I am not sure I like the question. "Would you hire the guy who picked on you in high scool?" I am aspie. But I am very athletically built and so people may look at me and think "he's the guy in school who always got picked first, was popular, and probably had loads of girls." I was nothing like that in school.
I remember in some of my jobs I have been picked on by fat and average looking bosses. And I wondered if they saw me as the guy in school who they were jealous of. So I hate the question you are asking because I think it would be wrong to even entertain the idea that you would discriminate based on school issues.
Just because someone was on the sports teams doesn't mean they are bullies. And remember a lot of people make stuff up on their resume.