Wow, I thought I was the only one! Based on the poll results, that's clearly not the case. I do tend to flich when there's a sudden loud noise, when someone approaches me unexpectedly, when someone makes a sudden move near me, when inanimate objects are thrust at me, that sort of thing. In junior high, my peers use to shove school books and other similar objects close to my face, just to watch me flinch. Presently, I'm working with preschoolers, and over the years, I've encountered a few children who have picked up on this, and would jump around and make a lot of noise when I was trying to lead an activity just to see my reaction.
My junior high peers should have known better than to treat me that way, and I'm still angry about the various ways they bullied me.
I don't blame the preschoolers. Simple physical comedy is quite entertaining to that age group, and I unfortunately do look quite comical when I flinch. This is an issue I'm working on, as that does sometimes interfere with my effectiveness in the preschool classroom, and I would like to stay in this field for a number of reasons.
So, yeah, I'm very much a flincher, and it can be problematic.
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