Verdandi wrote:
To be fair, I have ADHD too. It's apparently present in quite a few people who are on the spectrum, so I don't know that it matters.

I think it does. Until recently I pretty much dismissed my ADD, in favor of focusing on AS and how it affects me. A few weeks ago though, I learned some things about ADD I never knew before, and now realize the ADD is responsible for a LOT more than I thought. It also conflicts in some ways with AS, so the two together, at least in me, paint a different picture than either would on it's own. And it's not as if I can look at ADD and AS separately, then mentally lay one picture on top of the other and "viola! This is what I look like!"
It's slightly more complicated than that. Certain things are clearly AS, and certain things are clearly ADD. Certain things are present in both, and other things "appear" when the two are mixed together, that wouldn't be there if only one or the other were present.
The only reason whether it's caused by ADD or AS matters is in the context of the OP's question. Not everyone with AS is like this, therefore, I don't know if this trait would be present if I had AS and not ADD.
Verdandi wrote:
I did forget to say I can focus on things I love and not so much on things I don't.
Me too, and this is a trait that I've found is also common in BOTH ADD and AS.
EDIT: I probably should mention the reason I don't think it's fair to attribute this particular trait in me to AS is because though I do (or at least have) fit the criteria for AS, some of the symptoms are mild now, and I don't have all of them. Where my ADD is concerned though, I have all nine of the attentive symptoms, and every one of them is constant and deeply entrenched. So I have the tendency to believe that those traits are more applicable to my ADD. This happens to be one of them.
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